trying to help/deal with, my almost 99 YO father...

[Alameda]

31. Everyone thank you for your sympathy and advice....

It's good to see I'm not alone with this problem, although I would not want to wish this on anyone. It seems like the only thing to do for now is wait it out.
When I've called him, he has been utterly unreceptive. I have done research on all sorts of devices that could help him. In doing the research,I was amazed at the helpful devices available and now share them with you,, perhaps there will be something of use to some here, or you know others who could benefit from my research.

Unfortunatly, my father only scoffed and complained and said none ot them would be of use to him. I guess what he wants is a slave
.....and yes, he has the money to purchase or rent these items.

Smart lift Vest
If you are attempting to lift and transfer a loved one from the floor to a sitting position with the Smart Life Vest, please follow these steps. Depending on the severity of the situation, there are two procedures, one being for a single caregiver, and the other being for two caretakers. Do not attempt to lift a fallen loved one by yourself if the task calls for two people.
http://www.fallrecovery.com/how-it-works.html

Mangar Camel Lifting Cushion - How To Use It

Wheelchair stair climber...here is one video. there are quite a few that can climb stairs

Beasy transfer system
http://ma

an ingenious device to transfer people from bed to wheelchair, into a car or what ever

patient transfer sheets are a valuable tool for moving patients. There are many different types, this is not an endorsement of this particular one, but rather a way to let people who may not know about this tool