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littlemissmartypants

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6. Find out if the senior center in your area can help.
Sun Aug 28, 2022, 12:28 AM
Aug 2022

I agree with rubbersole. There most likely needs to be a trust set up for when MIL passes away. It's expensive to hire an eldercare attorney but it's worth it. I recently lost both my Daddy and Mother shortly after and I'm eternally grateful for the trust he established for us* to take care of Mother. I don't get along with my sister so it's been a true blessing not to have to deal with her throughout this process.

So, bottom line...

Seek help with the local entities in your area which advise on these things and look for a reputable elder/estate attorney to help you with setting up a trust for your MIL's assets. That's my suggestion.

Take care of yourself, too. This stuff is so stressful especially on top of grieving so be kind to yourself.

❤️ pants

*Mother, me, half-sister and niece.

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