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BainsBane

(54,697 posts)
13. I think my most important realization
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 12:00 PM
Jun 2014

Last edited Mon Jun 2, 2014, 03:46 PM - Edit history (1)

is that calling someone a prude and "slut" shaming are the same thing--both belittle our sexuality and devalue as women.

They're losing ismnotwasm Jun 2014 #1
Would you mind sending me a link to the thread? Sheldon Cooper Jun 2014 #2
it is all about the monkeys.... seabeyond Jun 2014 #3
I don't think I saw that and if I'm guessing right I have them on ignore anyway. Sheldon Cooper Jun 2014 #5
LOL BainsBane Jun 2014 #6
and act like it. woman. dont you know those monkeys/apes sex shame the female to feel like a male. seabeyond Jun 2014 #7
yes. the right slut shames. the left prude shames. but our sexuality is always used to shame us. seabeyond Jun 2014 #4
where as the male sexuality is used to make them feel like... god. isnt that interesting, seabeyond Jun 2014 #8
I have to say libodem Jun 2014 #9
Thank you BainsBane Jun 2014 #11
DU Rec Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2014 #10
"a woman's purpose is to provide sex. Any deviation from" it is ALL they have. it is all they have seabeyond Jun 2014 #12
I think my most important realization BainsBane Jun 2014 #13
i and others have been saying that for about a year now. but once it hits... it means something. seabeyond Jun 2014 #14
Yep. Exact same thing. MadrasT Jun 2014 #15
It's a cycle that men have to break for themselves. Flatulo Jun 2014 #16
Good for you BainsBane Jun 2014 #17
It's a good lesson to learn in handling life in general, not just relationship-y stuff. Flatulo Jun 2014 #18
No, I don't blog BainsBane Jun 2014 #19
Excellent post. laundry_queen Jun 2014 #20
Thanks. I appreciate the compliment. BainsBane Jun 2014 #21
"...those men... attack our very womanhood, indeed our personhood." Very true, and very sad. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #22
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