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seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
Tue Feb 25, 2014, 05:21 PM Feb 2014

back!! getting old. lets place bets, how long do you think i have? [View all]

i have to assume no more cussin for me. i loves my cussin and love to play with cussin, but seems the goal posts have once again shifted and no cussin' for me. so, i was going to give myself a good solid two weeks. then i read skinners reply in ATA and i wonder if i simply have minutes. lol

i didnt ask anyone to put my hides in ATA. i didnt ask skinner to give his opinion of my hides. but, since he did, i guess i ought to clarify. cause when we have an opportunity to be understood, then i think we have a responsibility in that.

She told another DU member "who the fuck are you".


i TOLD? i told the poster, a poster with 60 post and less than two months on this board, a poster that went directly after me and bettyellen, two long time posters with insults? i TOLD him "who the fuck are you"?

what i did was ASK a new poster that came into a thread and attacked two long time posters....

who the fuck are you that you know the duers so well, after a couple months?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4520726


i asked a man who insulted betty and i, who he was. because, we know the men that are kicked off du merely change names and we deal with them repeatedly. i wanted to know, who this poster was. surely we should have an even playing field knowing what their previous handle was as their right to insult us meets community standard. yet, asking the poster who he is, is rolling the dice.

and when someone is defining me and my words, use the whole sentence, including the question mark.

i walk into an Op that was all about ridiculing and insulting some of the women on du. well into a thread of posters jumping in to play a game of insulting some of the members of du.

skinners assessment of that post and the juries response was.

The hideable offense is: The jury thought it was rude. (nt)


here is the "rude" comment:

i clearly stated the issue. you clearly said, fuck you. we will fuckin mock and insult you at will

tough fuckin shit to the hypocrisy of it cause does not matter. we will, because we can.

and if you are proud of that manny, so be it. nothing i can do about that. but it clearly shows the hypocrisy on du, and the bullying tactic used.


personally, i thought i was pretty civil considering there was a pretty long thread of duer after duer insulting me and a group of women. but... lets just say that juries decision was that i was rude.



On Tue Feb 18, 2014, 10:49 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

i clearly stated the issue. you clearly said, fuck you. we will fuckin mock and insult you at will
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4520291

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Um, is that what Manny said? This response seems disproportionately OTT.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Tue Feb 18, 2014, 11:09 AM, and voted 5-1 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: OTT indeed. Seems personal.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Thread was started to provoke and that is what happened...
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given


four of the hides have absolutely no explanation. one assumed it was personal, for god knows what reason. nowhere did i see anyone conclude i was rude. i could easily say, it was merely hidden cause my name was on the post. kinda like this juror.

On Mon Feb 10, 2014, 07:37 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

another call out behind my back, with polly that LOVES to insult me?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4474403

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Callout of a DUer who was not even involved in the thread to this point.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Mon Feb 10, 2014, 07:47 AM, and the Jury voted 2-4 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: It was a call-out...
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: If this post gets hidden, Sea goes on another break and the patriarchy wins again.
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: OTT
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I'm sure the alerter noticed the callout of seabeyond in post number 54 by BellaKos and alerted it as well? No, actually, I'm not. Bella dragged seabeyond into a debate in reply to polly7 and polly7 wrongfully targets seabeyond as the offender. Perhaps we can just hide all 3 posters' post in this thread; just like kindergarten when the teacher holds the entire class accountable for the actions of a few? Hide 'em all or hide none. For this instance, leave it.


If this post gets hidden, Sea goes on another break and the patriarchy wins again.

if i am having people vote to hide a post, simply to have me kicked off the board, and reading skinners replies in ATA, i concluded, that with each and every one of my posts, i am certainly rolling the dice.

i do not think that is really what du is about.

this ties into a lot said and not said in ATA. but, we all know people let skinner direct how we as a whole move forward. and i think it is clear, after more than one Op skinner has addressed my hides in ATA, the bar is very very low to hide anything i post.

i read a thread earlier about how our jury pool is lessened for many reasons. i would also like to be clear, with a number of alerts, eventually there are going to be the four that will hide, with no reason. it does not take a brainiac in math to figure that out.

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Glad your back. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #1
thank you justin. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #34
Oh lordy, sea... this is just going to get alerted too. MadrasT Feb 2014 #2
am i not allowed to discuss, me being discussed elsewhere? really? seabeyond Feb 2014 #4
LOL, you reminded me of Zombie's post about how the jury system works when it comes to YOUR posts. redqueen Feb 2014 #16
i WANT that poem. and i want it now, lol. ya. that. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #18
oh oh oh and i didnt cuss. i only copied my previous sin of cussing to be ... ya, fair. lol. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #5
Glad you're back. TDale313 Feb 2014 #3
i love your picture. that was our early porn that justifies what we do to women today seabeyond Feb 2014 #7
Teeheehee That's it TDale313 Feb 2014 #19
use the anti-jury feature...start putting your stalkers on it... VanillaRhapsody Feb 2014 #6
meh... too many. really. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #8
I understand....I currently have one of mine beating around the bush VanillaRhapsody Feb 2014 #10
ah. well.... seabeyond and a few other? out right is just find. part of community standards. seabeyond Feb 2014 #12
Welcome, sea hlthe2b Feb 2014 #9
thank you. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #11
Heeeyyyyyy!!!!! Good to see you!!!! Squinch Feb 2014 #13
HEEeeeeeeYYY, squincher. so very long time no see, seabeyond Feb 2014 #14
Hi sea. Welcome back. DURHAM D Feb 2014 #15
because i knew you.... i have been changed. lol too true. seabeyond Feb 2014 #17
Agree ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #24
I second this motion DonCoquixote Feb 2014 #33
Happy to see you here sea :-) seaglass Feb 2014 #20
i have a tough time with.... you take your chances, rollin the dice, when clearly seabeyond Feb 2014 #35
Welcome back,Sea! sufrommich Feb 2014 #21
i was thinkin. certain not in good faith. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #22
and thank you. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #23
So glad you are home! Texasgal Feb 2014 #25
lol lol seabeyond Feb 2014 #26
Hurrumf! Texasgal Feb 2014 #27
you are the best... seabeyond Feb 2014 #28
Glad to see you back, sea. UtahLib Feb 2014 #29
certainly. i do watch them go after baines. for sure. and her... lordy if she isnt all the way seabeyond Feb 2014 #36
Welcome back, Sea! cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #30
thank you cinnabonbon. i always feel like i am talking in the mirror seabeyond Feb 2014 #37
Good to see you back, sea Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #31
d, d, d, ... f...! ya. that. lol. that is me. seabeyond Feb 2014 #38
no explanation given DonCoquixote Feb 2014 #32
ya, well... what would fair and balance have to do with anything. seabeyond Feb 2014 #39
seabeyond, have you ever considered that maybe some jurors ... PsychoBunny Feb 2014 #40
Ha ha ha. Capitals TOO. No cussin' AND capitals? Just shoot me now. seabeyond Feb 2014 #41
Oh, this is funny. The capitals on that post comes with the phone. Nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #42
That made me snort tea out my nose. MadrasT Feb 2014 #44
just a joy, and such a mess. i hear ya. lol. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #53
LOL! That IS funny ...... PsychoBunny Feb 2014 #46
Even your phone is imposing its rules on you. seabeyond Feb 2014 #54
I don't know if it's the lack of upper case in sea's posts or not. Sheldon Cooper Feb 2014 #49
That the alerter got a hide without even bothering to give a reason for the alert BainsBane Feb 2014 #57
i rarely use them either Scout Feb 2014 #60
you and sea? the same person? Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #62
lol. of course you did not get that vibe cause that is bull poo poo. lol. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #63
ah, yes ... and my Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #73
Well, I am not taking that bet. KitSileya Feb 2014 #43
ah, Kit Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #45
start drinking the wine at four and you should be able to hit that sunset, lol. seabeyond Feb 2014 #55
Actually ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #47
look at you woman.... you so kicked tush on that one. seabeyond Feb 2014 #56
Regardless of the idiocy on display in the juror comments, welcome back! LanternWaste Feb 2014 #48
fuggin' did learn my lesson, by gosh. seabeyond Feb 2014 #58
I'm so glad you are back JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #50
it was explained to me that passive aggressive is the way to go. and i can go without hides seabeyond Feb 2014 #59
Pay close attention to me JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #61
i always do... pay close attention to you. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #64
The Rules JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #65
and no figgin fuggin..... gotcha. seabeyond Feb 2014 #66
Someone tried JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #67
OHHHHH man, it just clicked. light bulb. you made it go off. WTF is allowed. just like MIFL, seabeyond Feb 2014 #68
Exactly JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #69
EXACTLY. adn the inherent dishonesty of it does not allow me to hold on or remember this seabeyond Feb 2014 #71
at the risk of sounding ____________ (fill in the blank) geckosfeet Feb 2014 #51
fuggin' huh? lol. fill in the blank. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #52
I know JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #70
lol. wtf? sff! nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #72
This message was self-deleted by its author R B Garr Mar 2014 #74
Hi sea, I posted earlier but deleted R B Garr Mar 2014 #75
actually i read it and wanted to post on it. seabeyond Mar 2014 #78
Great, I'm glad you read it. And thanks for your nice comments. I see your No. 1 fan R B Garr Mar 2014 #83
all the friggin time, lol seabeyond Mar 2014 #86
unbelievable Deep13 Mar 2014 #76
thank you deep. i think so also. it is fun, when i do not have so many hides, i get to do jury, BUT seabeyond Mar 2014 #77
All the best people from the Bush era have been kicked off. nt Deep13 Mar 2014 #79
Its good to see you back. Luminous Animal Mar 2014 #80
thank you luminous. seabeyond Mar 2014 #87
DU is a better place with you on it rather than off it. nt el_bryanto Mar 2014 #81
thank you el. that is a very nice thing to say. seabeyond Mar 2014 #88
Welcome back. CrispyQ Mar 2014 #82
thank you crispy. seabeyond Mar 2014 #89
I don't get it...is it just women who can't curse? SunSeeker Mar 2014 #84
PWF BainsBane Mar 2014 #85
just some posters. and no one knows why they are hidden, really. just feel take away opportunities seabeyond Mar 2014 #90
Your favorite stalkers are out in full force again. Sheldon Cooper Mar 2014 #91
the alerts are out also. people sharing the results. yes. it feels like that is exactly what seabeyond Mar 2014 #92
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