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In reply to the discussion: Regarding the response to Dylan Farrow's letter: [View all]jeff47
(26,549 posts)95. Yeah, it sucks when someone has a different opinion.
And yes, you also expect children to remember the exact dates they were raped.
We're talking about off by years, not exact date. Including remembering other details that are false - such as living in the previous or next house.
I don't give a shit what Mia Farrow does. This isn't about Mia fucking Farrow.
"Angry spouse coaches child to claim abuse" happens often enough that social workers and police have procedures in place to try and separate those accusations from real accusations. As a result, Mia Farrow's actions become relevant - she was enraged about Soon Yi. Also, the accusations that she pressured a nanny to lie can't be ignored - that isn't to say they're true, just that they need to be investigated.
Here comes McMartin again.
Well, it's the poster child for false memories of sexual abuse. It's going to come up in any situation where someone claims recovered memories of sexual abuse.
But it's also illustrative of the difference of mis-remembering and lying. Some of the McMartin kids remember being abused so vividly that they have suffered the psychological scars of real abuse.
Dylan needs support and help, no matter what. Whether or not Allen needs to be locked up needs to be determined by an investigation to cut through the murk.
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Led Zeppelin - another example of being unable to enjoy the art after learning about the artists.
redqueen
Feb 2014
#50
Same reason Charlie Sheen and Chris Brown faced very different reactions from the public nt
redqueen
Feb 2014
#54
Yes, your observations are correct and the injustice & inhumanity of it all
whathehell
Feb 2014
#103
If men molest girls, it's accepted - made excuses for. If they molest boys, it's not.
Triana
Feb 2014
#22
no, they weren't married - it was a correction to some one who called Mia his wife.
hollysmom
Feb 2014
#56
She provided the dates - I never asked anything, I am just a witness to what I saw happening.
hollysmom
Feb 2014
#104
Where are you getting "recovered memories" from? Dylan did not recover any memories.
redqueen
Feb 2014
#110
It is bending over backwards when you are grasping at straws, introducing entirely unrelated issues,
redqueen
Feb 2014
#114
I have no tolerance for it. Tying yourself in knots trying to prove Dylan shouldn't be believed
redqueen
Feb 2014
#96
I amthe bad guy? you are judging me for things I did not say and I am the bad guy!!!
hollysmom
Feb 2014
#107
It's too late to prosecute him, I believe. So all that's left is individual people making up
pnwmom
Feb 2014
#40
I keep asking myself Why would one put theirself through all this public
Tuesday Afternoon
Feb 2014
#4
dude. when I use -()- around a word or group of words that should give you some
Tuesday Afternoon
Feb 2014
#68
It also sucks that more than 94% of abuse allegations turn out to be true.
LanternWaste
Feb 2014
#99
Hard to do when people don't frickin believe women who have been molested, raped, assaulted.
boston bean
Feb 2014
#11
It's too late to prosecute him. This often happens in child sexual abuse crimes.
pnwmom
Feb 2014
#33
Maybe you should have waited to form your final judgment till you heard from the grown up girl.
pnwmom
Feb 2014
#36
I agree....and it's interesting that Mia's son, who is a therapist, backs Allen. nt
msanthrope
Feb 2014
#47
I have no idea what happened... but i think RQ is referring to the responses here on DU
Scootaloo
Feb 2014
#51
^^^^ excellent Cut and Paste ^^^^ MUST READ ^^^^ thank you for posting it.
Tuesday Afternoon
Feb 2014
#62
There is also his sickening "affair" with a 17-year-old high school student
Arugula Latte
Feb 2014
#70
Is it wrong that I find myself afraid of people who are attacking a little girl who was molested?
bravenak
Feb 2014
#76
No, it isn't wrong. It's natural to be wary of people who seem to have more concern for protecting
redqueen
Feb 2014
#80
It's so gross seeing DUers defending the idea of middle-aged people dating teenagers.
redqueen
Feb 2014
#120