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BainsBane

(54,671 posts)
47. That group is far from representative
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 11:00 PM
Nov 2013

of the men on this site, though they do have a collection of vocal allies.

one rape of a child where the 41 yr old man was let go... too many. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #1
Only a woman would understand. liberalmuse Nov 2013 #2
that post should be a thread starter LittleGirl Nov 2013 #6
12 yrs old in the lunch cafteria line. some boy, matt, decided what the hell, and sticks his fingers seabeyond Nov 2013 #7
Yup. Been zentrum Nov 2013 #37
just ... so wrong. and so wrong, after all this progress and knowledge our girls are still seabeyond Nov 2013 #44
LOVE this video. Very cool. zentrum Nov 2013 #105
zentrum, i am sorry i missed this post earlier. thank you so much for bringing it into this thread, seabeyond Dec 2013 #119
Thanks for viewing it and zentrum Dec 2013 #127
One guy at work once told me he had a right to rape me hollysmom Nov 2013 #3
and the women that go along and support this garbage. what? is it that they have been abused and seabeyond Nov 2013 #8
I needed that job, like many people do, hollysmom Nov 2013 #18
that is something i have forgotten in all the porn threads. how often men use porn to intimidate or seabeyond Nov 2013 #22
Sea, those rapes can't compare to the oppression of a rape prevention PSA BainsBane Nov 2013 #4
boggles the mind. truly. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #9
The hidden post below BainsBane Nov 2013 #43
talking about me obsessing about rape? that post below? i had another man accuse me last night, or seabeyond Nov 2013 #49
Sea, you're not supposed to talk about rape BainsBane Nov 2013 #55
Rape is a perfectly acceptable topic for porn, but not for women to talk about... seabeyond Nov 2013 #56
Yeah - this kind of bullshit makes me want to puke. smirkymonkey Nov 2013 #100
Right on. smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #107
yes. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #120
This just outrages me. smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #116
Ugh! I am SO tired of the lack of empathy of so-called liberal men. smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #117
yes. i view men differently, after listening to so many men, that declare themselves progressives. seabeyond Dec 2013 #118
Even though this is what they are most afraid of xulamaude Dec 2013 #122
years ago i started clearly stating, this was not a repug issue but a man issue. i single voice in seabeyond Dec 2013 #125
It;s weird to me that Texasgal Nov 2013 #5
it does. then again.... it is the net. who knows what their life really is. seabeyond Nov 2013 #10
Me too, and angry Tumbulu Nov 2013 #26
and who knows how i kept mine. lol. seabeyond Dec 2013 #121
wavin... just cause i think you are a totally awesome woman. seabeyond Dec 2013 #124
Thank you! Tumbulu Dec 2013 #126
Post removed Post removed Nov 2013 #11
of course you meant to offend. so, because i hear about woman after girl after woman after girl seabeyond Nov 2013 #13
Wow. That was a good hide Scootaloo Nov 2013 #36
i was too. i would like to hear jury. i didnt alert. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #50
The peanut gallery and the hidden post BainsBane Nov 2013 #63
and now... when we speak up, we are "obsessed". kinda like repugs putting out talking points. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #65
"Why are you inventing a war on women," random GOPer BainsBane Nov 2013 #70
ya. those rape porn threads are sticking with you too, huh. lol. me, too. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #72
It's such a rude awakening xulamaude Nov 2013 #90
i had three women standing on the porch. i asked, who was raped. of the three, there were three seabeyond Nov 2013 #91
are you in steubenville? did you support the footie footie football players, not being obsessed seabeyond Nov 2013 #14
if you didn't mean to offend, then what DID you mean? BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #15
dusting off hands, .... seabeyond Nov 2013 #16
you too, sea. you too! BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #17
we are just looking at the sexual predators. it is thru out our life. how many times seabeyond Nov 2013 #12
Oh goodness, just trying being an unmarried woman farmer Tumbulu Nov 2013 #28
goodness is right. lol. i betcha. you dared to step into the mans world. hey.... seabeyond Nov 2013 #31
I've seen it, beautiful pictures Tumbulu Nov 2013 #32
yea. i am glad you have seen it cause i am hopeless in searching. seabeyond Nov 2013 #34
This 58 year old man believes that... MarianJack Nov 2013 #19
right on... brother. lol seabeyond Nov 2013 #23
And that crap has been going on forever. In the mid-80's there was a judge in WI, if iirc, that gave Mnemosyne Nov 2013 #73
but that was so long ago, we should have clearly progressed beyond that stupid. you are right, seabeyond Nov 2013 #75
Pitiful that we haven't progressed much at all in all this time. Mnemosyne Dec 2013 #106
I am VERY fed up with... MarianJack Nov 2013 #94
Thank you! smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #108
Rape & Pillage nahant Nov 2013 #20
minor punishment will do nothing but further the rape culture.. seabeyond Nov 2013 #24
Too many men cannot recognize assertiveness lexington filly Nov 2013 #21
excellent post. and maybe that is a lot of what it is. seabeyond Nov 2013 #25
Yes, women are pissed off and have every right to be. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #27
mine too Tumbulu Nov 2013 #29
you, the gentlest of all... use the p word. that is pissed. seabeyond Nov 2013 #33
seabeyond, you must have me confused with someone else. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #62
lol. you seem to have such patience, and you are always so so so nice to me. lol. seabeyond Nov 2013 #67
seabeyond, they can not take from us. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #88
wow. perfect. i needed to hear this song. perfect. seabeyond Nov 2013 #89
Sorry I missed this video the first time you posted it. In_The_Wind Nov 2013 #95
Good morning In_The_Wind. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #96
It's a very cold morning sheshe2. In_The_Wind Nov 2013 #97
Thank you, In_The_Wind~ sheshe2 Nov 2013 #98
Almost every single woman I have known demigoddess Nov 2013 #30
i can remember at three and just vaguely. mom and i went to a neighbor womans house. somehow i got seabeyond Nov 2013 #38
You can say some men don't get it. iandhr Nov 2013 #35
went back and checked. nope. didnt say all. we have great men on du that are very loud voices seabeyond Nov 2013 #39
That group is far from representative BainsBane Nov 2013 #47
true that. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #52
I donlt think anyone has said Texasgal Nov 2013 #40
"men... why the hell are YOU not perpetually outraged." iandhr Nov 2013 #42
men does not mean all men. and really, since i was talking about the mens forum, that is on our ass seabeyond Nov 2013 #54
understood. iandhr Nov 2013 #77
thank you. do know, we all love our men. we appreciate each and every one that add their voice to seabeyond Nov 2013 #80
We know ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #45
give your hubby a hug for me tonight and tell him it is from sea in amarillo. and thanks for doing seabeyond Nov 2013 #57
I will ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #60
and then tell me if he says... sea in amarillo? isnt that texas? there is no sea in amarillo. seabeyond Nov 2013 #68
as the saying goes, "if you are not outraged, you are not paying attention". I am paying attention niyad Nov 2013 #41
yes yes yes, i remember you all coming up with your outrage names. me, i wasnt creative enough. lol seabeyond Nov 2013 #58
I regret not keeping up with this group... defacto7 Nov 2013 #46
frame it. another brother. do you remember a time when we were sisters and brothers? i do. seabeyond Nov 2013 #64
you know what the worst about thsoe rape porn threads were? imagine all the women on du that have seabeyond Nov 2013 #71
That is what I find so disgusting. They can't seem to get it through their dense skulls why we smirkymonkey Nov 2013 #103
If I discovered any man in my life watched that shit I would have nothing to do with them, CrispyQ Dec 2013 #109
+1 nt PassingFair Dec 2013 #112
Great post! I have become so disheartened within the last few years. smirkymonkey Nov 2013 #101
Oh, but didn't Republican Todd Akin say "rape is a blessing?" Rozlee Nov 2013 #48
yes yes yes yes yes yes yes. you know? and they say it right out loud. for every person that has seabeyond Nov 2013 #74
Heartfelt. Real. Makes me tear up. Makes me ball up my fists. Mira Nov 2013 #51
oh mira... what a wonderfully perfect post. tahnk you so much for putting it exactly as you did seabeyond Nov 2013 #76
When men rape women then blame women when women report it....including law enforcement Triana Nov 2013 #53
i didnt SEE that thread. didnt see didnt see. fuck. mra puts out 45-75% rape claims false seabeyond Nov 2013 #79
My brother is an mra. Triana Nov 2013 #86
ya. i got a knuckle dragger too. love him to pieces. as soon as he starts i tell him to seabeyond Nov 2013 #87
I don't look at the men's forum ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #59
i am going to have to check out your links. triana had some interesting ones also. one very seabeyond Nov 2013 #81
A personal message to seabeyond Mira Nov 2013 #61
+1000 ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #66
my son told me the other day... the best compliment ever, seabeyond Nov 2013 #82
Most of us are doing everything we have time to do. I KNOW it's not enough.... BlueJazz Nov 2013 #69
thank you blue.... nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #83
FUCKING HELL YEAH. Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2013 #78
right on sister... RISE.... seabeyond Nov 2013 #84
UP !!!! Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2013 #85
Me too ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #92
well, I don't have anyone on Ignore but, It is there if I need it and I WILL use it if I see a need. Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2013 #93
And there's more... Chalco Nov 2013 #99
I WILL NEVER SHUT UP CrispyQ Dec 2013 #110
Your post reminded me of the amazingly excellent Urban Dictionary entry for "misandry" redqueen Dec 2013 #111
checking in, male and perpetually outraged. unblock Nov 2013 #102
oh, you gave me a much need giggle... thank you, perpetual. appreciate it. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #104
why I am pissed mercuryblues Dec 2013 #113
i am off du. but, had to post to say, thank you.... i hear ya. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #114
+1000 nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #115
All of this just outrages me beyond belief. smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #123
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