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dixiechiken1

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18. Honestly, this right here tells me that you don't really need advice...

Reply to 3Hotdogs (Reply #15)

Thu Sep 30, 2021, 08:47 AM

Sep 2021

The fact that Joyce (my condolences on your loss) said these last words to you tells me you already know how to treat a lady. Kindness and gratitude go a looong way and it sounds like you've got that in spades. Now, extend some of that kindness and gratitude to yourself and you're golden!

You do you. That's enough. Always.

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Ladies -- what makes a good lover? I may have a chance and I don't want to screw it up. [View all] 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 OP

Anyone named "3Hotdogs" doesn't need advise from me!!! ret5hd Sep 2021 #1

It deals from the time my brother made fun of me for eating same when I was a kid. 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #3

Be nice. Be kind listen to her. Put her desires first. Walleye Sep 2021 #2

Thank you. Exactly the opposite of how I planned for things to go. 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #10

Ok, I've shared this with lots of the married Phoenix61 Sep 2021 #4

This is is it ... Joinfortmill Sep 2021 #5

i always said-women want attachment, men want release. mopinko Sep 2021 #7

Thank you. Exactly the opposite of how I planned for things to go. 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #11

Don't talk up a storm quickly. secondwind Sep 2021 #6

Thank you. Exactly the opposite of how I planned for things to go. 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #13

be grateful. mopinko Sep 2021 #8

That part of relationship is one I know I can do. 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #12

Like I told my daughter many times: MOMFUDSKI Sep 2021 #9

I haven't seen her in 30 years. I expect to see C in a couple of weeks. 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #15

Honestly, this right here tells me that you don't really need advice... dixiechiken1 Sep 2021 #18

Heartily agree! pengillian101 Oct 2021 #20

What a good question to ask. I hope a lot of men who would never ask the question read the answers. Scrivener7 Sep 2021 #14

Please read my response that follows yours. I thought it was attached to your post but is on the 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #17

I spend a lot of time on D.U., posting quips and so forth. 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #16

Grab as much life and love that you can packman Sep 2021 #19

Just saw this post from months ago, peacebuzzard Jan 2023 #21

Thank you for your response. As I posted, the original contact was through a mutual friend. 3Hotdogs Jan 2023 #22

well, thanks for asking. I am usually not too much help when it comes to personal relationship peacebuzzard Jan 2023 #23