Sister in law friend kept asking me out.

[littlemissmartypants]

17. I'd block her if it's your cell phone she's contacting.

But before I did it, I'd let her know that you're blocking her.

I would also be tempted to text her if she tries to contact you again, you’d consider her a stalker, which is against the law. But that's my inclination as a woman who's been stalked and had to get a couple of restraining orders.

Being bizarre in your response may have worked for the moment. I suspect that you may be referred to her prayer circle by now.

Don't be surprised if she tries again to check and see how her prayer circle strategy is working.

She's clearly not a sensible or compassionate person. That's proof of no chemistry in itself.

I'm so sorry that you lost your sweetheart. I also understand that anyone else would be a downgrade.

Stay encouraged, Duncanpup. We love you.



Ps: I would have to let SIL know that you don't want you phone number shared again without permission. If you needed her help you would have asked.

I would also have to have SIL tell her friend, that she was wrong to share your number without your permission. I'd also be tempted to have
SIL reiterate to her friend that you're not interested in dating her and she shouldn't contact you again.

I know nothing that I suggest may be your style. But I'm suggesting from my perspective as someone who doesn't like to see another person who's grieving be misunderstood in their grief. It's hard enough as it is. You don't need others making it even more difficult. I guess it's just my INFJ tendency to be protective kicking in. ❤️