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slightlv

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19. I'm so sorry for your losses,
Sun Nov 20, 2022, 03:32 PM
Nov 2022

and I echo your sentiments. This has been a year filled with death for me and mine... both people and "babies." I lost the cat of my heart due to an acute diabetic crisis neither I nor my vet caught in time. We all fought valiantly for a week, but in the end, his heart just gave out. A month later, I lost my 23 year old tabby. I also lost my Mom's 20+ yo tabby this year. Lost several dear friends to Covid, and other diseases. And extended family members to accidents. Also ended up putting my Mom in a Memory Care home. I absolutely detest this year. The fact the R's are ending it by threatening our only source of income is just the icing on the cake of the year.

Hang in there, and take it one day at a time. The heartache will ease a little with each passing day, and the good memories will eventually overtake the bad. But the longing will still be there, I can attest to that. I still miss my Sweetie so much I wake up in the night crying over him, and I lost him in March. All our companions touch our hearts; some of them just touch our souls a bit more than others. It sounds like your Princess touched your soul like my Sweetie did mine. I wish I could give you a hug, because I know how it hurts. Allow yourself to cry, to grieve for both of your losses, freely. I'll light a candle and think of you and your beautiful Princess, frolicking free of pain on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge. May we meet someday there and introduce each other to our very special friends.

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Healing vibes on the way to you. 💓💓💓 SheltieLover Nov 2022 #1
My heart goes out to you. FalloutShelter Nov 2022 #2
so sorry about your baby and mom passing, peacebuzzard Nov 2022 #3
O.. my Dear Friend. I hear the pain in your words.. I'm sad so much has happened Deuxcents Nov 2022 #4
I am sorry for your losses LetMyPeopleVote Nov 2022 #5
I'm so very sorry. *hugs* GPV Nov 2022 #6
🕊🕊🕊🕊 Rebl2 Nov 2022 #7
My Mom had dementia. She would lose track of conversations. CousinIT Nov 2022 #16
Oh yes Rebl2 Nov 2022 #24
Wow. That's tough losing you Dad and Uncle so close together. CousinIT Nov 2022 #25
I am so Rebl2 Nov 2022 #28
I am sorry for both of your losses. murielm99 Nov 2022 #8
Ohhhh... frogmarch Nov 2022 #9
What sweet blue eyes! GoneOffShore Nov 2022 #10
She was the sweetest girl. CousinIT Nov 2022 #12
Sorry for your losses Marthe48 Nov 2022 #11
Very sorry for your losses. sinkingfeeling Nov 2022 #13
I'm sorry for your grief orthoclad Nov 2022 #14
Beautiful kitty! cilla4progress Nov 2022 #15
Am so very sorry. 😥 Duppers Nov 2022 #17
Audrey and Bitsy CousinIT Nov 2022 #20
I'm sorry for your losses. brer cat Nov 2022 #18
I'm so sorry for your losses, slightlv Nov 2022 #19
OMG I am so sorry for your losses too. That's WAY too much for one year. CousinIT Nov 2022 #21
What a beautiful little princess!!!! About a week ago, I lost my Carny. He was born with bad kidneys Karadeniz Nov 2022 #22
Awwwww. You were literally his survival! CousinIT Nov 2022 #26
Don't make me blush! Put up all the photos you can of Mom and Princess... look at them with a Karadeniz Nov 2022 #27
Sorry for your loss. AltairIV Nov 2022 #23
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