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Brainstormy

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30. Thanks for help, and just to let you know
Tue Feb 6, 2018, 10:20 PM
Feb 2018

The responses in our Deep Dive tonight were much oriented toward keeping the dialogue open with family members and close friends. Most of my group are mature atheists--by which I mean they've been "out," settled, confident, declared, whatever you may want call it, non-believers for a long time. [I'm not one of these, therefore have a lot to learn.] But the emphasis tonight seemed to be on what responses/questions might leave open the hope of further dialogue. Interestingly, many of these approaches were questions themselves: Does it matter? Why do you want to know? Why is it important? Do you care? What answer might I give you that would be the wrong one? What would you think of me, if . .. "

Bottom line: Socratic. Lessons from a a great pagan philosopher?

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Engaging with Believers [View all] Brainstormy Feb 2018 OP
I don't try to "convert" believers. Mr.Bill Feb 2018 #1
I get that Brainstormy Feb 2018 #17
I feel no compunction to explain why I'm an atheist. procon Feb 2018 #2
I really appreciate the sincerity part, but Brainstormy Feb 2018 #4
Why do you feel the need to engage anyone? procon Feb 2018 #7
True. but surely there are times Brainstormy Feb 2018 #11
No. It really isn't. procon Feb 2018 #19
Ok, here's to the "you're mad at/hate god" JNelson6563 Feb 2018 #3
Always a cocky smile ... Mariana Feb 2018 #6
Good points. procon Feb 2018 #8
It's funny. But it does work. Brainstormy Feb 2018 #12
I've honestly never used this tactic Brainstormy Feb 2018 #16
Here's a scenario Freelancer Feb 2018 #21
Good post. nm Ferrets are Cool Feb 2018 #26
I used to volunteer TwistOneUp Feb 2018 #5
That is SO true Brainstormy Feb 2018 #13
I never do Timewas Feb 2018 #9
true. but you're lucky if it never comes up Brainstormy Feb 2018 #14
Last one to ask Timewas Feb 2018 #18
A woman in TX TwistOneUp Feb 2018 #20
I like to quote Jesus to them. safeinOhio Feb 2018 #10
So, what's your fav Jesus quote? n/t Brainstormy Feb 2018 #15
Here's an idea... Freelancer Feb 2018 #22
You better put a time limit on the pitch. Mariana Feb 2018 #23
LOL. Too true. -nt Freelancer Feb 2018 #25
On the Internet, I am very confrontational with certain believers. trotsky Feb 2018 #24
I tell the truth. Iggo Feb 2018 #27
Interesting concept, the truth. Brainstormy Feb 2018 #28
Regarding this particular subject, I'm a lot nicer here than I am in person. Iggo Feb 2018 #29
My latest response to why I don't believe was that I've seen lindysalsagal Feb 2018 #31
Thanks for help, and just to let you know Brainstormy Feb 2018 #30
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