Engaging with Believers

[procon]

2. I feel no compunction to explain why I'm an atheist.

If someone does not agree or can't grasp the concept of not believing in any supernatural beings, then that's it's their problem, not mine. If asked, I just state that I'm an atheist. If pressured about the necessity for everyone to believe in religious doctrine, as firmly and politely as I can, I say I don't find any reason to do that and I'm quite content, thank you for asking. Sometimes I have to repeat myself until my words sink in.

I don't like it when religious folks try to push their dogma on me, so I never proselytize. I'm in my 70s, but I'm not a philosopher, a wise sage or a learned guru of human spirituality. I never define my POV, that's personal and it's mine, mine alone.

Everyone has different values, ethics and needs, so I don't set out to criticise someone else who wants to seek comfort in religion. However, I expect the same courtesy from the them. Just be sincere. Be confident and strong in your views and don't allow anyone to pull you in a different direction and you'll be fine.