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Brainstormy

(2,445 posts)
Thu Feb 1, 2018, 07:20 PM Feb 2018

Engaging with Believers [View all]

You guys have given me great insight in the past. In a few days I'm moderating a Deep Dive discussion on "Engaging with Believers" in our Meet-up Group. Most of us, I know, now have, or have had, difficulties in answering questions, communicating with family members and co-workers, etc., about our stance as atheists or agnostics. I'd be interested in knowing, especially, what works for you and what really doesn't. How do you answer the, "where do you go to church?" question. "What happened to you?" "Why don't you believe in God"?, etc. I'm mainly interested in hearing about how confrontational you choose to be. Or not. Do you exploit opportunities to lead others to rationality or let them slide? Is it better to lay low, or do you feel an ethical responsibility to speak up? What's the best way to engage with believers without burning all the bridges. Or should we care?

I'd be grateful for any experiences or insight you're willing to share.

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Engaging with Believers [View all] Brainstormy Feb 2018 OP
I don't try to "convert" believers. Mr.Bill Feb 2018 #1
I get that Brainstormy Feb 2018 #17
I feel no compunction to explain why I'm an atheist. procon Feb 2018 #2
I really appreciate the sincerity part, but Brainstormy Feb 2018 #4
Why do you feel the need to engage anyone? procon Feb 2018 #7
True. but surely there are times Brainstormy Feb 2018 #11
No. It really isn't. procon Feb 2018 #19
Ok, here's to the "you're mad at/hate god" JNelson6563 Feb 2018 #3
Always a cocky smile ... Mariana Feb 2018 #6
Good points. procon Feb 2018 #8
It's funny. But it does work. Brainstormy Feb 2018 #12
I've honestly never used this tactic Brainstormy Feb 2018 #16
Here's a scenario Freelancer Feb 2018 #21
Good post. nm Ferrets are Cool Feb 2018 #26
I used to volunteer TwistOneUp Feb 2018 #5
That is SO true Brainstormy Feb 2018 #13
I never do Timewas Feb 2018 #9
true. but you're lucky if it never comes up Brainstormy Feb 2018 #14
Last one to ask Timewas Feb 2018 #18
A woman in TX TwistOneUp Feb 2018 #20
I like to quote Jesus to them. safeinOhio Feb 2018 #10
So, what's your fav Jesus quote? n/t Brainstormy Feb 2018 #15
Here's an idea... Freelancer Feb 2018 #22
You better put a time limit on the pitch. Mariana Feb 2018 #23
LOL. Too true. -nt Freelancer Feb 2018 #25
On the Internet, I am very confrontational with certain believers. trotsky Feb 2018 #24
I tell the truth. Iggo Feb 2018 #27
Interesting concept, the truth. Brainstormy Feb 2018 #28
Regarding this particular subject, I'm a lot nicer here than I am in person. Iggo Feb 2018 #29
My latest response to why I don't believe was that I've seen lindysalsagal Feb 2018 #31
Thanks for help, and just to let you know Brainstormy Feb 2018 #30
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