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Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
55. I'm also fine with that
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 12:48 PM
Feb 2019

My son is gay which in our household made absolutely no difference to us. Most of his friends have very different experiences some of which faced years of "conversion therapies" and other horrific experiences most of us will never fully understand and in virtually all cases precipitated from fucked up religious false morality. One of them moved into our home after being kicked out of his at the age of 14 by his fundamentalist parents. One of my cousins committed suicide after years of drug addiction caused by her devout family trying to turn her into something she was not. A fundamentalist co-worker has the most dysfunctional family you can imagine all rooted in his children (now adults) rejection of his false morality.

Meanwhile hard data is difficult to come by because people tend not to self-identify LGBT and the strength of religious conviction is hard to quantify. However, it's estimated the suicide rate of LGBT youth is about 5 times higher than their peers. You'd have to be pretty naive to think religion doesn't have a significant role to play in that, and not in a good way.

That's just one aspect of it. You also have "purity" campaigns organized pretty much exclusively by organized religion that fucks up lives in all sorts of ways, not to mention generations of religionists who teach their female children to be subservient to men because the bible tells them so.

"Religion is what you believe. Superstition is what the other guy believes" walkingman Feb 2019 #1
Say! I think you may be onto something there! MineralMan Feb 2019 #2
So on the mark CommonSenseMom Feb 2019 #10
A Protestant might say you are right exboyfil Feb 2019 #3
When I was a teenager, Protestant girls wore necklaces with a mustard seed in the pendant. MineralMan Feb 2019 #4
They didn't learn that from my Sunday School exboyfil Feb 2019 #6
Well, see, not everyone went to your church, apparently. MineralMan Feb 2019 #8
Sometimes it's just evidence of sloganeering Major Nikon Feb 2019 #5
Very good. Firestorm49 Feb 2019 #7
There was a Spanish Mission in the town where I lived in California. MineralMan Feb 2019 #9
I'll bet with those odds Cartoonist Feb 2019 #13
13th century minds CommonSenseMom Feb 2019 #11
The more I try to figure it out, the more it looks like safeinOhio Feb 2019 #12
Why do cats purr? Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #14
As long as someone isn't doing what their religion calls on them to do? MineralMan Feb 2019 #16
I'm talking about individuals...personal religious observation, not harmful Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #18
And I'm talking about Religion in general, not individuals. MineralMan Feb 2019 #19
Hi MineralMan - A very interesting question. Pendrench Feb 2019 #15
One's experience of religion or any other philosophy MineralMan Feb 2019 #17
Agreed - what I posted are my own thoughts/beliefs. Pendrench Feb 2019 #26
There are actual health benefits from religious observation Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #20
There are health benefits from meditation, exercise, and many other MineralMan Feb 2019 #21
you were previously comparing to superstitution ... Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #24
You get the same benefit from owning a dog. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2019 #25
Sure it does. Voltaire2 Feb 2019 #41
They're all good boys. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2019 #43
Lmmfao.... Docreed2003 Feb 2019 #53
Man! Glamrock Feb 2019 #56
Chihuahuas, too. MineralMan Feb 2019 #60
That's why I have cats. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2019 #62
Well, we have both dogs and cats. MineralMan Feb 2019 #63
Dogs have owners zipplewrath Feb 2019 #76
The first study does not compare MineralMan Feb 2019 #27
I showed that religious observation had improve outcomes Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #32
Without reading the actual study, I can't say all that much. MineralMan Feb 2019 #33
yes, I gave you a summary Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #34
Where are the links to the studies you summarized? MineralMan Feb 2019 #35
I gave you enough information to find them Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #36
Never mind. You made the claim. MineralMan Feb 2019 #37
the claim? Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #38
Not unhappy. Indifferent. MineralMan Feb 2019 #39
That doesn't say what you think it says Major Nikon Feb 2019 #44
There is an emotional factor overlooked here SoFlaDem Feb 2019 #22
Well, perhaps religion also allows people to ignore reality. MineralMan Feb 2019 #23
In the example I gave SoFlaDem Feb 2019 #40
Aren't you also overlooking the negative aspects? Major Nikon Feb 2019 #45
These people I spoke of SoFlaDem Feb 2019 #46
So you site anecdotal evidence, but demand hard evidence from others? Major Nikon Feb 2019 #47
I don't demand anything SoFlaDem Feb 2019 #48
"sweeping statement" Major Nikon Feb 2019 #49
Not at all SoFlaDem Feb 2019 #50
I'm also fine with that Major Nikon Feb 2019 #55
I agree some fundamentalist religion seems to have negative consequences SoFlaDem Feb 2019 #58
Or maybe not Major Nikon Feb 2019 #59
I have never said the problem never exists SoFlaDem Feb 2019 #61
How about the Civil Rights movement? Major Nikon Feb 2019 #66
Religion allows people to excuse themselves from vile deeds. Remember that article CharleyDog Feb 2019 #28
That's very true, and you have used one of the prime examples MineralMan Feb 2019 #29
Let me see if I remember Lent correctly... louis c Feb 2019 #30
Yes. Something like that. MineralMan Feb 2019 #31
I'm not sure it's a metaphor. Pope George Ringo II Feb 2019 #42
I thought St. Christopher wasn't doing his job and got the boot(sandal) njhoneybadger Feb 2019 #51
I recall that also - or actually he really never existed rurallib Feb 2019 #52
Christianity co-opted paganism - cilla4progress Feb 2019 #54
Far more efficient to co-opt hocus pocus from someone else Major Nikon Feb 2019 #57
A bridge too far with this "gem" nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #64
Regarding your last question, MineralMan Feb 2019 #65
I did not say "Religious Group" nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #67
Nobody here is obligated to answer questions, MineralMan Feb 2019 #68
A pattern demonstrated. guillaumeb Feb 2019 #69
Yes, indeed. MineralMan Feb 2019 #70
"Nobody here is obligated to answer questions" nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #72
I'm not going to mock religions here... uriel1972 Feb 2019 #75
Careful. It you keep picking at that martyrdom complex it is going to become inflamed. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2019 #79
Not playing the martyr nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #84
You're whining about your religion being called out to the neglect of others. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2019 #85
I am not whining nor do I have the sads and I'm certainly not suffering nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #87
I mock nobody. I point out hypocrisy wherever I see it. MineralMan Feb 2019 #80
I was NOT complaining nor was I being hypcritical nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #82
I did not equate Catholics with Trump supporters. MineralMan Feb 2019 #86
Yep, put it on me nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #88
Oh, dear...No thanks. I'm not going any further with this. MineralMan Feb 2019 #89
And there it is... NeoGreen Feb 2019 #74
My faith and beliefs are not weak nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #83
Of which group are you a member? Catholics or Maga hat wearers. MineralMan Feb 2019 #90
The split was 55 trump 45 Clinton. Voltaire2 Feb 2019 #71
That depends on which poll you look at nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #73
You claimed it was 16-6. Voltaire2 Feb 2019 #78
Yes and I corrected that in another post nightwing1240 Feb 2019 #81
Just looking for an excuse to hear this great song. Croney Feb 2019 #77
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