I have nothing against people who don't believe in spirituality, but people who proselytize non-

[MarvinGardens]

166. I think I get where you are coming from.

I am a deist who believes that God does not intervene in our lives in any direct way, and I believe that it is highly likely that we cease to exist at death. I also believe that human society has reached the point in our evolution that religion is holding us back more than it helps us. So in terms of lifestyle, I might as well be an atheist or agnostic.

That being said, I often self-censor my beliefs when I am around someone who is casually discussing religion, and it is obvious that they are a religious believer. I do not usually go into detail about my personal beliefs, am not bothered by being invited to church (I may even show up if the service isn't too early), and am fine to join in saying grace before dinner. If someone wants to proselytize, they may find out what I really think, but even then I may self-censor if I think they can't handle it. Although I believe that in the aggregate, we'll all be better off if we can cast off religious dogma, this casting off needs to be completely voluntary and only when people are ready for it. When it comes down to an individual who seems like a good person who is sincere in their religious beliefs, I think "maybe they need this belief system more than they need to know what I think. Maybe they need it to get through the rough spots in their life."

I also agree with those on this thread who have said you have to expect to hear a diversity of ideas here in the Religion group, including from atheists and agnostics. If ever there was a place to "proselytize", this is it.