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KarenS

(5,025 posts)
22. We live in Senior Apartments
Sun Apr 27, 2025, 07:27 AM
Apr 27

Last edited Sun Apr 27, 2025, 08:33 AM - Edit history (1)

Cons: some can be very 'clique-ish' ~ gossipy ~ think Junior High School ~ some have very costly buy-ins (not ours ~ we have month to month rent)

Pros: Many have an activities Director ~ Many have a club house with meeting rooms/card rooms, swimming pool, ballroom/activity room/ golf course ~ fitness center ~ I learned to line dance plus Other dance lessons ~ Organized game nights ~ outside entertainment brought in ~ Artsy-craftsy kinds of activities ~ Speakers ~ Movies ~ no one asks you to baby-sit ~ gets you around people ~ some have transportation to appointments/shopping

Mind you I live in the East Valley of the Phoenix Metro area ~ lots and lots of Seniors here. Used to lived in an Over 55 Active Community in a Manufactured Home,,,, Now we are in Senior Independent Living Apartments ~ these have all of the above "Pro" plus they cook our meals and we can go to eat in a Community Dining room or deliver to our apartment or we can do our own cooking and they clean our apartments (if we want ~ every week) ~ Dogs only on the ground floor and cannot be in the indoor areas, we have very small patios to take our dog out around the property for a walk ~ a company that does physical therapy has an office here in the building,,, covered parking or garages for those that still have cars,,,,

folks that live these apartments range in age from 70s to 90s and are mostly healthy.

It was a good decision for us to move here. My Husband is less social than I,,,, so we are both pleased.

But I will say we are spending the children's inheritance. There wasn't a huge amount anyway but,,,


on edit: I took this from another post I made in March and added to it.

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No, not been there bucolic_frolic Apr 26 #1
if i got the place in rly good shape, mopinko Apr 26 #7
lol, wouldn't use AI. fair enough. bucolic_frolic Apr 26 #10
Please don't recommend AI, especially to people who might not be familiar with generative AI highplainsdem Apr 27 #23
yeah, i think it is a pox on humanity. mopinko Apr 27 #31
As you get older - really senior yrs- it's vital to find those who will come to your aid No Vested Interest Apr 26 #2
my kids r scattered and mopinko Apr 26 #5
Yes, we have to learn to zip our lips at times with some of our kids. No Vested Interest Apr 26 #9
i've had a couple. mopinko Apr 26 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author anciano Apr 26 #12
I'm 76, currently in a senior facility for about six months. It has both independent and assisted living. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 26 #3
yeah. my mil mopinko Apr 26 #17
I only know this one facility, but there are absolutely PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 26 #20
Every situation is different IbogaProject Apr 27 #30
in Madison, lots of places. Tetrachloride Apr 26 #4
i wouldnt leave chicago, i dont think. mopinko Apr 26 #6
You shouldn't have to move very far PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 26 #21
yeah, there r a couple good 1s that i know of already. mopinko Apr 27 #32
Ohh, I doubt that will be a problem. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 27 #34
I've made a deposit on a "continuing care community"-- viva la Apr 26 #8
i have a couple other properties, so mopinko Apr 26 #14
That sounds like a great group to join! viva la Apr 26 #18
yeah. the lady that lives there mopinko Apr 27 #33
I live alone in a 'small' house, near daughter, son in law, elleng Apr 26 #11
This sounds like a good situation. No Vested Interest Apr 26 #13
your daughter and fam mopinko Apr 26 #16
They're VERY good eggs! elleng Apr 26 #19
We live in Senior Apartments KarenS Apr 27 #22
it's the gossip i worry about. mopinko Apr 27 #25
Meh. Gossip is gossip. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 27 #35
well, me irl mopinko Apr 27 #36
My experience in this senior housing is not remotely like PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 27 #37
well, that's comforting. mopinko Apr 28 #38
i plan to spend as much of the inheritance as possible. mopinko Apr 27 #26
Go ahead and spend the children's inheritence! PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 27 #28
If you are starting to feel you should IbogaProject Apr 27 #24
well, i feel less that way now that i am feeling better. mopinko Apr 27 #27
we live in Sun City, AZ mike_c Apr 27 #29
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