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Mental Health Support

LiberalLoner

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9. Thank you so so much! 💙💙💙 it was hard going no contact and I struggle with guilt but

Reply to Permanut (Reply #4)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 12:13 PM

Dec 2024

It’s been a lifetime of abuse starting in childhood so everyone says you should have gone no contact decades ago. No one who knows the situation thinks I have been too harsh or made the wrong decision.

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Feeling kind of proud of myself. [View all] LiberalLoner Dec 2024 OP

Congratulations on healing generational trauma! FirstLight Dec 2024 #1

I'm so sorry for what you went through, but I am so glad you are still here.... LiberalLoner Dec 2024 #2

Welcome back from the edge! Lunabell Dec 2024 #3

Thank you so so much! 💙💙💙I am so glad you are okay now and that you survived! LiberalLoner Dec 2024 #8

I salute you and the strength you have discovered inside.. Permanut Dec 2024 #4

Thank you so so much! 💙💙💙 it was hard going no contact and I struggle with guilt but LiberalLoner Dec 2024 #9

Good for you snowybirdie Dec 2024 #5

Thank you so so much! 💙💙💙. Will try hard to remember that advice... LiberalLoner Dec 2024 #10

It's a huge accomplishment. femmedem Dec 2024 #6

Thank you so so much! 💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Dec 2024 #11

I will never forget that first contact after years of being out of touch. OldBaldy1701E Dec 2024 #7

Oh, man. I'm sorry. I know the guilt, the temptation to relent, and then thinking, I never should have LiberalLoner Dec 2024 #12

I would like to say, in the event my husband and I are murdered, please have the LiberalLoner Dec 2024 #13