A midlife epiphany on Mother's Day!

[3Hotdogs]

6. YES. Disclose to your family.

Tell what you have learned and how it manifests. ASK for their feelings about it. Ask them how they felt about prior interactions. Tell them how you feel about what you have learned. This could be in person, email or even better, snail mail.

Feelings: I learned from one of my therapists, there are four basic feelings. Mad, sad, glad and scared. You might begin by telling them (and others) that you are "scared to begin telling you what I am about to tell you." -- if that's what you feel.



I would like to meet you. I believe I would enjoy being with you because you are likely a person I could be with without saying a word. I recall a story about Johnny Cash and Bob Dylan. Bob would sit on Johnny's porch for hours without either one saying a word.

No, I am not stalking you. I most likely will never meet you but the thought is fun.


Feel free to p.m. if you would like to share further thought, tell me how things are going or ask how I am doing. You can even do that as practice.

Best wishes,

3H