group host / statement of purpose

[seabeyond]

72. but we are not demanding the same. it CAN NOT be just one sided. we cannot say we are putting in

ALL the effort because we understand our failings of not having more 'isms, and though harsh, i do NOT mean it disrespectfully. we KNOW we are not in the same boat as a gay woman, or a black woman or any other minority. we KNOW. i was not part of 2nd feminism. i learned from others what they did. i have in all my posts supported gay women and their uniqueness in our community.

that cannot mean that someone can run roughshod over everyone else in the group, with no consideration to fairness, or listening, not judging, too. it has to be a two way street.

a person should not be able to throw out a one two in insult, walk away and not own up to her mistake. then be patted on the back as being picked on by the white middle aged women.

why the hell would anyone want it to work that way.