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Warren DeMontague

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16. In case anyone is interested in the views of ONE of the hosts of The Men's Group;
Tue May 22, 2012, 07:04 PM
May 2012

Obviously, this meddlesome Mr. DeMontague doesnt speak for anyone but himself, although often in the third person.




First off, just so we're clear- I do NOT consider myself an "MRA" or men's rights activist or any of those things. It's just not where I'm at. I am, of course, a firm believer in equal rights for EVERYONE. Men do face unique challenges in our society and our world, that should not be forgotten- and obviously this would be an excellent place to discuss that sort of thing.

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I do understand the arguments some have had around this group and the concept of "men's rights". Like "Caucasian rights", or "Christian rights", I mean one has to acknowledge the reality that coming from a majority group or group that has enjoyed historical advantages, such a term can sound, at best, absurd if not flat-out obnoxious.

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What I'd personally like to see for this group is a low-key, low-stress, non confrontational area for open discussion on a whole range of topics, again, of interest to men... which covers a pretty broad area, I should think. I also think this should be a bigotry-free zone, a homophobia free zone, a LGBTransphobia free zone, a misandry and, yeah, misogyny free zone... Probably can't keep it from being a misanthropy free zone just due to my personality, but that's what I'd like to see.



The entire bloviating piece by that self-serving windbag can be read here:


http://www.democraticunderground.com/1114866

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Very good article from Southern Poverty Law Center... hlthe2b May 2012 #1
I like how Men's Rights Stuff is on the SPLC radar --that's what we're dealing with CreekDog May 2012 #3
Thanks for posting! laconicsax May 2012 #2
That seems questionable... Neoma May 2012 #5
Why? -eom Control-Z May 2012 #6
Seems like it's broad brushing men. Neoma May 2012 #7
Nope. Control-Z May 2012 #8
At the time she made the post, there were people arguing over the Men's group in H&M. Neoma May 2012 #9
Wow. Control-Z May 2012 #11
The Southern Poverty Law Center MadrasT May 2012 #12
Okay. Neoma May 2012 #13
Correct. Starry Messenger May 2012 #15
In case anyone is interested in the views of ONE of the hosts of The Men's Group; Warren DeMontague May 2012 #16
I know you aren't replying to me, but I've never thought you are an MRA. Starry Messenger May 2012 #17
And I honestly knew jack diddly about MRA groups until recently. Warren DeMontague May 2012 #18
It's been rather obscure until recently, I think. Starry Messenger May 2012 #21
Were there really progressives and liberals who were fighting against VAWA reauthorization? Warren DeMontague May 2012 #22
MRA groups are extremely hateful. Men would not want to be associated with them. Dash87 May 2012 #23
Bingo. laconicsax May 2012 #24
What seems questionable? laconicsax May 2012 #10
Disturbing. :-( MerryBlooms May 2012 #4
One in five women have been raped!?! Rex May 2012 #14
I've never heard anyone claim that "men are victimized by sex crimes as much as women are" lumberjack_jeff May 2012 #19
Intimate Partner Violence: Definitions Starry Messenger May 2012 #20
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