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In reply to the discussion: In Defense of Single Mothers [View all]

ismnotwasm

(42,607 posts)
22. My guess is
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 03:07 PM
Mar 2012

Looking past gender smoke and mirrors, that it's not so much 'single parent' households--a state my husband and myself both participated in--- as lack of support. One can certainly successfully raise a child without a partner, but some sort of family, whether blood related or not, is a good thing. I know Ms. Greer is in a lot of hot water for her transphobic views but in one of her books she said 'America' hates its children. We have no system of nurturing support, supposing I guess, that's Moms job. America doesn't want to pay for, isn't interested in, dislikes if not "hates" the children of 'others'
So rather than supportive communities, ones that nurtures and embraces children, we demonize women for not having the um, excellent good sense to stick that quarter between her knees and just say no.
We're used to being demonized are we not? Call it the apple syndrome.

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Which leaves one to wonder what they think of women that have lost their mates to war and are left appleannie1 Mar 2012 #1
My fiancee was a single mom Xipe Totec Mar 2012 #2
that word bugs the crap out of me... FirstLight Mar 2012 #3
Wouldn't you agree that you might not have been the best chooser of mates? grand earth trine Mar 2012 #10
no, sorry FirstLight Mar 2012 #13
What about the man's choice to bail out on the mom? Crickets chirping. muntrv Mar 2012 #4
And that happens every single time? Neoma Mar 2012 #5
Most single mothers don't choose this road Marrah_G Mar 2012 #6
+1. There have been times in my marriage when my husband had to travel *a lot* for work. gkhouston Mar 2012 #8
Although Biologically Unqualified cbrer Mar 2012 #7
It may not always fate a child for a bad life grand earth trine Mar 2012 #9
It's repulsive to want to be single? Neoma Mar 2012 #11
She's gone. Again. uppityperson Mar 2012 #12
Why do you keep stressing the "again" part, dear? naughty nina Mar 2012 #14
And she's gone...again. uppityperson Mar 2012 #15
My sympathies to your brain. occupy this. Mar 2012 #16
and gone again maddezmom Mar 2012 #17
This is getting irritably stupid. Neoma Mar 2012 #18
Always a nuisance when the Hanes Outlet is having a sale. n/t gkhouston Mar 2012 #19
Gotcha. typhoid mary Mar 2012 #20
I wasn't talking about that. Neoma Mar 2012 #21
My guess is ismnotwasm Mar 2012 #22
Now that is an insightful answer. efhmc Mar 2012 #23
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