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In reply to the discussion: Has anyone read "Gone Girl?" [View all]
 

SheilaT

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38. I've read it. Plot spoiler alert
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 01:13 PM
Jan 2015

although this entire thread is a pretty much a plot spoiler, although fortunately no one has mentioned any real details.

The character of Amy is a complete and total sociopath, possibly even a psychopath. There is no larger message about women adapting to men's wishes in this book. Not at all. Nick, by the way, while not a sociopath, is totally self-centered, and in the end is totally terrorized by Amy.

Someone who played the game about the perfect woman and came to resent that the game was necessary, would simply stop playing. She wouldn't go to the extremes Amy does. Amy has the good fortune to be very attractive, and simply makes use of that. She makes use of her assets to do what she wants to do, with zero regard for anyone else. Because she is so totally oblivious to the reality of others, she is able to be caught off guard and therefore robbed partway through the story. Someone else might have had her guard up and not less it happen.

While the movie was in production a big deal was made about how the author, who also wrote the screenplay, changed the ending. Well, she didn't really. It just plays out a little differently, that's all.

I thought the movie was very well cast, and neither Ben Affleck nor Rosamund Pike ever hit a false note in their characters. They both deserve Oscar nominations.

The writer, Gillian Flynn, is amazing, and you should read her other novels. She writes about unlikeable people, and while she doesn't make you like them -- doesn't even try actually -- she does make you willing to go along for the ride.

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Has anyone read "Gone Girl?" [View all] leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 OP
Sounds like an interesting book CountAllVotes Jan 2015 #1
Gillian Flynn is the author. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #4
Thank you leftyladyfrommo! CountAllVotes Jan 2015 #5
Heres the link...:) SummerSnow Jan 2015 #26
The novel is better, IMO whathehell Jan 2015 #28
Gone Girl Polly Hennessey Jan 2015 #2
I didn't really understand just how brainwashed women are leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #7
Yes. I enjoyed it, but, basically two spoiled and vindictive brats. nt djean111 Jan 2015 #3
This problematic mindset seems to be increasing rather than diminishing Feral Child Jan 2015 #6
I know. It's really scary. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #9
That group suffers from a peculior sickness. Feral Child Jan 2015 #24
The Duggars are extreme yeoman6987 Jan 2015 #27
Just my opinion Feral Child Jan 2015 #31
Understand! yeoman6987 Jan 2015 #32
You to, yeoman. n/t Feral Child Jan 2015 #34
I'm not very social either. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #20
Yes. Feral Child Jan 2015 #25
if only she wasn't also a sociopath is what I kept thinking throughout the whole book. Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #8
I didn't see it that way. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #11
did you see the movie? she is a murdering sociopath. Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #12
I haven't gotten that far. And I haven't seen the movie. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #17
agree with you and I will shut up now because I am ruining the plot line for you. Where are you Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #19
She's living in the cabin. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #22
Exactly. Gillian ruins the powerful feminist message in this book by making Amy crazy. - Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #23
Oh, yeah -- to me, the whole premise of the book was that he was a jerk, but Nay Jan 2015 #37
I disliked the movie a lot, but liked the book until whathehell Jan 2015 #29
I kind of wished I had read the book before I saw the movie. and Yes, at some point, Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #35
Yes, I'm glad I did that. whathehell Jan 2015 #45
I feel that way, too. After finishing. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #46
Read and Enjoyed It in 2012 The Roux Comes First Jan 2015 #10
I think Gillian wrapped it up quickly because, by that time, she was tired of living in Amy's Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #13
I didn't see her as sick and twisted. Just fed up. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #15
Understanding how she felt is one thing, justifying/rationalizing the actions she takes is a whole Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #16
I'll keep reading. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #18
I don't know that I don't like her. She is deliciously evil. Like the Wicked Witch in Fairy Tales. Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #21
If you can't imagine why some women would want to marry TexasMommaWithAHat Jan 2015 #40
I don't think it's just young women. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #14
Trying to be hot destroys many minds and bodies, too. merrily Jan 2015 #30
I have to tell you this because it explains a lot. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #42
I read the first half and the end. I gave up because I could see they were both sociopaths. Shrike47 Jan 2015 #33
intersting, in that I did not see him as a sociopath, just lazy and spoiled. Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2015 #36
Me, too. He was just a regular spoiled, thoughtless, selfish guy, and she is shown to be much Nay Jan 2015 #39
I've read it. Plot spoiler alert SheilaT Jan 2015 #38
Thanks for sharing that. TexasMommaWithAHat Jan 2015 #41
I do want to say, that even though SheilaT Jan 2015 #43
I just finished the book. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #44
I finished the book last night. brer cat Jan 2015 #47
I was interested in their childhoods, too. leftyladyfrommo Jan 2015 #48
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