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no_hypocrisy

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Tue Jan 9, 2018, 09:13 PM Jan 2018

I had an interesting day while teaching. [View all]

Last edited Wed Jan 10, 2018, 06:34 AM - Edit history (1)

I substituted as a class aide and was assigned at the end of the day to the preschool class for special needs children. I've been with them about 10 times in the last six weeks. I know the staff and the kids.

A boy was put in our class one minute after his third birthday. He is autistic and can't use words to communicate. He uses a variety of screams and shrieks. I've come to recognize a pattern or two, and realized he was trying to communicate the only way he knows how.

When I first met him, he was anti-social insofar as he was suspicious of people he didn't know. He was frightened and made for the door any time the thought occurred to him. While he didn't bite or was violent, he made it clear he didn't want to be in the class and school. He was also noticeably intelligent and seemed to love the I-Pad.

Fast forward to this afternoon. The kid was acting up a little and needed focus. The head teacher put him in a make-shift cubicle with games and activities, not very large. I was asked to sit on a chair near him to observe him (and to block the only exit of escape he would likely try). He played and seemed intent on what he was doing. Then -- without warning -- he approached me, climbed onto my lap and hugged me. He did this three times. This came as a surprise to me as we didn't exactly have a rapport established. I haven't seen him do with other teachers, although it's possible he has as I haven't been with this class for about a week.

BTW, this school has a very advanced program for special needs children from preschool to second grade.

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My grandson is autistic... N_E_1 for Tennis Jan 2018 #1
Thanks for a great story-hugs to you. TexasProgresive Jan 2018 #2
Oh THANK YOU, no_hypocricy, elleng Jan 2018 #3
You understood his language randr Jan 2018 #4
That must have been interesting Nictuku Jan 2018 #5
As former elementary school teacher for15+ year's I know that there is a fine line BigmanPigman Jan 2018 #10
more hugs to you lunasun Jan 2018 #6
Wow! I am getting teary-eyed just reading this. 3catwoman3 Jan 2018 #7
It always feels so special when a child like Phoenix61 Jan 2018 #8
God bless you. TomSlick Jan 2018 #9
So many things come to mind. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2018 #11
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