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SheltieLover

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1. I would just ask "so is it serious then?"

Reply to NNadir (Original post)

Sun Dec 22, 2024, 04:23 PM

Dec 22

Or so it sounds serious.

Have you discussed / made plans for your future?

Have you talked about moving to Europe?

What are her thoughts on Europe?

Ask then dont talk until he does.

Good luck!

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A Question for Parents of Adults On Asking About Their Romantic Plans. [View all] NNadir Dec 22 OP

I would just ask "so is it serious then?" SheltieLover Dec 22 #1

I don't ask at all. IzzaNuDay Dec 22 #2

Sounds about right. I'm curious, but as I've been telling my wife, about both my sons' lovers... NNadir Dec 22 #3

I do not ask radical noodle Dec 22 #4

NN - The fact that you are asking this question tells me that you'll do just fine. MMBeilis Dec 22 #5

Yeah, you're right. I'll do what my parents did in every case except my father on meeting my (future) wife. NNadir Dec 23 #6