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eridani

(51,907 posts)
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 03:07 PM Aug 2014

Black Girl Makes History. White Man Asks Her Why She Doesn't Do Something More 'Female Friendly.'

http://www.upworthy.com/black-girl-makes-history-white-man-asks-her-why-she-doesnt-do-something-more-female-friendly?c=upw1

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Many sites, including Media Matters and Mic, saw this clip as an example of sexism, pure and simple. Viewing it as only about gender misses a bigger problem: We have a human (on the left side of the screen) who is doing something extraordinary and another human (over in the middle) who doesn't take that person seriously, for any number of reasons. Maybe it's gender, right? He does imply that baseball isn't for girls, after all.

But she's also black, and he's white. Her experience as a girl can't be understood apart from her experience as a black girl. The fancy word for this is intersectionality — the way biases are so thoroughly intertwined you can't separate them out. Here is a helpful cartoon that explains it well.

Here's another idea: Maybe it's age. You'll note, she's a black girl and he's a white man. Plenty of people act like kids don't need to be treated like humans just because they're kids.

So, we have Mo'ne Davis facing someone who doesn't think she needs to be treated like a powerhouse because she's a young, black girl. Good on her for responding with such total poise.








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Black Girl Makes History. White Man Asks Her Why She Doesn't Do Something More 'Female Friendly.' (Original Post) eridani Aug 2014 OP
Where's the Old White Men's group? Jackpine Radical Aug 2014 #1
They're mostly over watching the jiggly bottle blondes on Pox News Warpy Aug 2014 #3
Nah, too easy. n/t JTFrog Aug 2014 #4
it was tempting, though. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #7
Can't blame ya. =) nt AverageJoe90 Aug 2014 #10
Poise is the word, for sure. (nt) enough Aug 2014 #2
they are typical fox news stupid hosts - disgusting to watch samsingh Aug 2014 #5
Yeah shenmue Aug 2014 #6
She's a brave girl.....bless her heart. AverageJoe90 Aug 2014 #8
Do you think that he has any idea TNNurse Aug 2014 #9
Either he doesn't get it or he doesn't care. AverageJoe90 Aug 2014 #11
What a douchebag. And I wish soccer was "female friendly, " but there are tons of barriers. SunSeeker Aug 2014 #12
Intersectionality is a spot on term Quayblue Aug 2014 #13
Yep--one of the main reasons why I posted this eridani Aug 2014 #14
This is unbelievably blatant. Wella Aug 2014 #15
She is so poised for thirteen years old. Manifestor_of_Light Aug 2014 #16
Dumbass ismnotwasm Aug 2014 #17

Warpy

(113,130 posts)
3. They're mostly over watching the jiggly bottle blondes on Pox News
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 03:13 PM
Aug 2014

You've already resigned from that bunch of losers.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
8. She's a brave girl.....bless her heart.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 05:23 PM
Aug 2014

Not surprised FOX would be condescending. But she handled that with grace, and she deserves a lotta kudos for that, in my honest opinion.

TNNurse

(7,102 posts)
9. Do you think that he has any idea
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 05:23 PM
Aug 2014

That she is smarter, more polite and more decent than he could ever imagine being???

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
11. Either he doesn't get it or he doesn't care.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 05:24 PM
Aug 2014

I sincerely hope Mo'ne goes far in her life. She has potential.

SunSeeker

(53,555 posts)
12. What a douchebag. And I wish soccer was "female friendly, " but there are tons of barriers.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:09 PM
Aug 2014

We are now on our third attempt to create a professional women's soccer league that lasts more than a few years.

If you are a talented athlete and you happen to be born a female, you quickly learn there is nothing "female friendly" about any team sport in the male - dominated sports world.

eridani

(51,907 posts)
14. Yep--one of the main reasons why I posted this
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 08:07 PM
Aug 2014

You can't really separate out all the sources of condescension here.

ismnotwasm

(42,436 posts)
17. Dumbass
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 08:15 AM
Aug 2014

I really wish I could blame this on plain stupidity instead of a glacierly slow hanging cultural standard

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