A Glossary of MRAs feel free to add
MRA - Mens Rights Activist. Can include all of the current mysogynist/rape enabling culture but at its least offensive just mean men who feel hard done by because women are fighting back against rape, coercion, underpayment, business discrimination and laws that restrict womens freedom. These men believe that women are now protected by a misanthropic the legal system (I face palmed as I wrote this sentence). These MRAs are, essentially, whiners who want to go back to the good old days of the 1950s when pipe smoking real men with ties protected the little woman from all harm, could give any girl a friendly slap on the bum and men were not emasculated by the culture.There are a few women who support this load of
Red Pill Redditors - MRAs with leet computing skillz, they believe they have taken the red pill of the Matrix and can see through to a reality where women are the dominant force in the real world. They tend to be much younger than the general MRA crowd - but also much nastier. It is these little boys who organise with 4-Chan to spam, troll and dox women who have offended them, perhaps for terrible crimes like blogging about how women would rather not be trapped by unknown men in a lift in the small hours of the morning and him wanting to go back the woman's room for coffee.
It is unknown how many of these guys long for some large Laurence Fishburne or muscular Carrie-Anne Moss to come along and take them under the wings of a leather trench coat before whisking them away to a small dirty room where wonderful things can happen.
Incels - The most pitiful of the MRAs, Involuntary Celibates. They bewail the fact they lack the social skills to approach women, talk to them, share normal life and then, maybe, investigate the idea that the relationship might become sexual. In the mind of the incel they are the only guys in the world, over the age of 10, who have not had sex. As far as I can gather they seem to approach women and ask for a pity fuck straight out.
There is a (very) faint chance that these boys might grow to be emotionally mature before the age of 70, get a spine and become useful members of society.
PUAs - Pick-Up artists. If Incels are spineless worms PUAs are peleagic ooze - slime. They believe that date rape, coerced sex and intoxication rape are consensual acts which they are entitled to perform. The less said about these predators the better, they are not funny.
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as much as we can so we can root out these misogynist parasites.
Thank you for this!
That's a good one.
It's a free-for-all shitfest.
I had tongue firmly placed in cheek as I typed that 
community standards =
beautiful here all weekend. rain this morning, nice and gentle spring rain. Life is so very good, indeed
Cracks me up
I always kind of liked her.
I like this too
she takes off her glasses, lets down her hair, and gently tosses it from side to side. Then the football player starts drooling, but she goes off with the "nice guy" instead.
Not exactly realistic, but the lesson we appear to be teaching the girls is they can still be "date-able" with some cosmetic changes. It's those darn glasses holding her back!!!! 
The geek boy ends the movie either having utterly changed his personality or without a romantic interest. Though I have noticed that this is changing a bit - they're starting to give the geek boy a geek girl sometimes. "Getting the cheerleader" in such movies still requires a new personality.
Again, the "red pill" boys I'm talking about are still in the wrong, I'm just saying it's an error from ignorance. All they know is what TV, movies and books have told them about their romantic worth, and that is massively reinforced by high school life. As time moves on, most of them will grow up enough to figure out they were wrong.
As for geek boy time vs geek girl time, ATM focusing on geek boys since MRA-types are the subject at hand. However, I think more focus on geek girls is the way to fix the geek boy problem - more exposure to girls, especially in a comfortably "geeky" environment, would probably be the best way to fix the "geek boy" problem. Hard for a geek boy to argue he can't talk to girls when he just chatted for a couple hours about "The Elder Scrolls" video games.
certain way and these supposedly intelligent, geeky, nerdy boys can not THINK for themselves to define HOTNESS in their own terms.
at the same time society is telling our intelligent, geeky, nerdy girls that they must look and act a certain way in order to attain another stereotyped male.
We have put each other in boxes and lo, beware those of us who feel constrained by the box and BREAK OUT from those confining restraints.
It is ALL such a HUGE LOAD of BULLSHIT to those of us who have broken out of our boxes that we are fast becoming frustrated (and then) bored with those who choose (for whatever myriad of rationalization) to remain BOXED IN.
Yep! That about sums it up!
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...I also wore glasses, and back then little tiny glasses came in 2 styles, plain tortoiseshell or fancy pink cateye glasses.
I wanted the pink ones soooo bad, and my mom would never let me have them.
My mom was pregnant when I was 4 and that seemed pretty horrifying to me. I was like "Wait WUT??? I am a girl and when I grow up.... oh hell no!" I was a pain in the ass about wanting to know about what made a baby happen and that is when she explained things to me. I was like, "OK, so basically make sure to never get in bed with a man naked and I am safe."
That seemed easy, just wear pajamas after you get married to keep your ladyparts covered so no accidents happened. (I truly thought it was an acccident, not fathoming at age 4 how ladyparts and manparts would meet each other on purpose.)
OK that is way off topic but my memory of my 4 year old brain amused me enough to want to share. 
bah ha.
i remember the glasses.
as they lash out from their self-loathing.
These are geeks. They never feel entitled. You can't feel entitled within a society when you feel you are a social outcast.
No, they are geeks and this is what they can never, ever, ever have. A girl at all, regardless of her "hotness".
"Hot" girls are targeted for the same reason terrorists target the famous. To get more attention.
Well, I don't have personal experience on that side, but I'd guess it is because we don't tell them they will never get sex. That they will never get any guy. To go back to the stupid stereotypical scene, she gets the guy by taking off her glasses.
Yes, having grown up in the life I am describing, clearly I'm unable to understand what it's really like.
The hole in your theory is the entitlement angle. These boys think they are the ultimate losers. You can't feel entitled when you feel utterly worthless.
These actresses start off hot. They just sexualize themselves.
That's the message girls get. If you're already hot, you have a chance, but first you have to sexualize yourself.
The girls who aren't hot are not fooled into thinking they can magically become hot by taking off glasses.
because American women aren't submissive enough. I can't remember the acronym they use for it, and my google searching to try to find it led me to pages of people raging about how awful feminists and other assorted liberals are for supporting IMBRA, so I've given up on finding it before my blood pressure gets too high. Hopefully someone else here will know it. 
Love it.
Saving for later....I gotta get to work, and I can't get off DU.
is that these guys seem to think any woman can automatically have any man she chooses at the drop of a hat.
(What with their talk about women being the "gatekeepers" of sex and so forth.)
It doesn't work that way.
Or I should say "one of the things that gets me".
They are living in a dreamland if they think that's how it works if you're a woman... that you just set your sights on some guy and BOOM he is automatically available, ready, willing, and able to hook up with you.
And the same goes for the guys. 
