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ismnotwasm

(42,443 posts)
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 12:09 AM Mar 2014

Fuck cancer

I haven't talked much about this, but three women I work with were diagnosed with breast cancer. Two had mastectomies- with attendant treatments. And are doing ok, for the most part.

One is dying. Right now. As I type. I'll say goodbye to her tomorrow, but it's so hard to lose a friend.

I thought I had more time you know? The cancer invaded her lymph nodes in her lungs and can no longer breathe on her own.
She was working just 2 weeks ago, part time.

This is a bad storm for me, she is a hell of a woman.

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Fuck cancer (Original Post) ismnotwasm Mar 2014 OP
I'm so sorry BainsBane Mar 2014 #1
It is an awful situation. lostincalifornia Mar 2014 #2
agree, it would be great if we could even come up with just dealing with it JI7 Mar 2014 #3
I say this every day KaryninMiami Mar 2014 #4
Sounds like triple negative. Downwinder Mar 2014 #5
Fuck cancer. F4lconF16 Mar 2014 #6
fuck cancer mercuryblues Mar 2014 #7
So sorry to hear this, ismnotwasm theHandpuppet Mar 2014 #8
It's an insidious disease. CrispyQ Mar 2014 #9
so many women it seems, our age. right now. .... i am sorry ism. seabeyond Mar 2014 #10
I'm really sorry cinnabonbon Mar 2014 #11
FUCK CANCER. yes. It is the one I hate worst of all. Right behind it: Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #12
So looking forward to the day when sufrommich Mar 2014 #13
I am so sorry... Squinch Mar 2014 #14
Oh I am so sorry Tumbulu Mar 2014 #15
So sorry for both you and your friend. We've lost 3 friends to breast cancer, all far too young. Flatulo Mar 2014 #16

JI7

(90,429 posts)
3. agree, it would be great if we could even come up with just dealing with it
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 12:31 AM
Mar 2014

without all the pain . it's not just that it kills someone but it's so painful . and horrible for friends and family .

KaryninMiami

(3,073 posts)
4. I say this every day
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 12:50 AM
Mar 2014

Recently diagnosed with a rare form of NH lymphoma here in FL (second of 6 chemo rounds on Tues.), while my sister undergoes radiation for breast cancer in Boston. Fuck cancer is exactly how I feel. Constantly.

mercuryblues

(15,077 posts)
7. fuck cancer
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 06:18 AM
Mar 2014

All cancer is extremely painful towards the end.

My aunt is a breast cancer survivor. I also had a good friend die from breast cancer several years ago. My reason for hating the fuckyou koman "foundation" for 3 years they gave her the all clear. One Christmas Eve she noticed a lump in her breast. Almost 8 years to the day she died.

fuck cancer and fuck nancy brinker double. I hope that asswipe dies a very painful death.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
8. So sorry to hear this, ismnotwasm
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 09:08 AM
Mar 2014

Many years ago I had an Aunt who died of cancer of the uterus. I can't think of many folks who haven't be personally effected by this horrible disease. The day a cure is found can't come fast enough.

CrispyQ

(38,166 posts)
9. It's an insidious disease.
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 09:24 AM
Mar 2014

I lost my father & a friend to it. Just think if we took the MIC budget & applied it to health & education. Good lord what a fucked up country we live in.

My sympathies on your friend.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
10. so many women it seems, our age. right now. .... i am sorry ism.
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 09:25 AM
Mar 2014

that is hard.

take care of you....

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
12. FUCK CANCER. yes. It is the one I hate worst of all. Right behind it:
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 10:27 AM
Mar 2014

I hate DIABETES. and then I hate OBESITY.

I HATE THOSE THREE with a passion.

ism, So Sorry to hear about your friends.
My grandmother had breast cancer and died as a result. She was taken away from me too soon.

Also, a woman I work with was also just diagnosed. 34 y/o. Mother of two. Found too late. Prognosis not good. We are doing Bake Sales at work to raise money to help offset the expenses.

So Sorry, ism.

So very sorry.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
13. So looking forward to the day when
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 11:11 AM
Mar 2014

cancer no longer kills.I doubt it will be in my lifetime but someday they'll unlock the secret to beating this horrendous disease once and for all. So sorry for your friend.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
16. So sorry for both you and your friend. We've lost 3 friends to breast cancer, all far too young.
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 11:36 PM
Mar 2014

It's a terrible, terrible ordeal for all involved. One women I was very friendly with perished at age 32, with two young daughters. It was an absolute nightmare, but her bravery in the face of certain demise was magnificent, and inspired everyone who knew her.

Fuck cancer.

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