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I have to admit this is creeping me out as well. Combine that with the " White Privledge" deniers, and I'm more than creeped out. It's actually frightening. And I'm white.
But lately Ive been feeling a little fatigued by the Oh-my-god-Lupita-Nyongo-is-so-beautiful-I-cant-DEAL-WITH-IT attitude.
The current fad-like coverage of the Kenyan actress, overshadows the more interesting aspects of her background; the things that do not get reported. True, I assumed she was a nobody until this slave narrative film, but a quick skim of Wikipedia reveals the stuff that the media isnt all that interested in.
Black and white people alike are enamoured with Nyongo for, what I believe, are different reasons. Black people are proud that Nyongo crushed it in her portrayal of Patsey and Im personally excited that weve got another black woman winning major acting awards. White people seems to be most preoccupied with Nyongo's exotic looks and I think thats something we, as a society, need to address.
For those who didnt know, Lupita Nyongo was born in Mexico City and hails from an affluent family of artists, doctors and scholars. She attended Hampshire College, here in the states, and graduated with a degree in film and theater studies. Shes also a Yale graduate and a polyglot, fluent in several languages.
What I was excited to know was that Nyongo actually wrote, directed and produced a documentary, in 2009, called In My Genes, where she investigates how Africans with albinism experience life in the predominately black Kenya. I was stoked to know this because all Ive seen of Lupita Nyongo, is how beautiful she is on every red carpet she walks. Which is wonderful because Nyongo is indeed quite beautiful! But shes also extremely talented in other, more important ways.
Im also weirded out by the onslaught of white people who are just plain gob-smacked by her exquisiteness. Ive received an enormous amount of trending Facebook articles from various fashion sources that seem almost amazed by how beautiful Lupita is. It irks me that people dont find it ironic how Nyongo has preformed one of the most gut-wrenching representations of an enslaved black woman. Her character, Patsey, shows the reality of an enslaved body; this body is allowed to be ogled, worked to death, beaten, and raped. This body does not belong to Patsey and for some reason, it feels as though Nyongo's body doesnt belong to her either.
http://www.blackfeminists.org/2014/03/05/the-fetishisation-of-lupita-nyongo/
CTyankee
(64,929 posts)I see her in that light as well as the more glamorized light of Hollywood. I think she brought a new standard of dignified beauty and professionalism to the Oscars. Meryl Streep was in this position several years ago and she, as well, has maintained her dignity and professionalism. Streep was also a Yale Drama School graduate. I see Nyongo'o in similar fashion.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)i thought you might appreciate. dignified beauty. why it does not work for me. a woman is only allowed dignified beauty when society allows. that is what i get from the words, this morning. lol. might change by this afternoon.
CTyankee
(64,929 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)mere decade or two, ago. what would be the reason?
more and more today, our society, our men, are DEMANDING our womens role being attractive to them. that is or primary? or only real goal in life. to be attractive for men.
it is an obsession of pornifying our women which has become a norm. betcha, this will just become a fact in a couple more years. clear and obvious. like the hypersexualization and objectification of women today.
any woman that becomes public for any reason, becomes mans porn. stripper. sexual entitlement.
it is the only place men have yet to create women as subservient.
the last paragraph reminded me of the movie generals daughter. on a griping scene of reenacting a gang rape, explaining it to her father, in a heartfelt speech, prior to her death, they sexualized the whole scene making her eye candy as she retold her story. the pain and hurt of her fathers dismissal. nothing like psychologically turning a man on to the pain of a woman.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)BainsBane
(54,728 posts)There have been several threads. I know I myself am taken with her. I can't claim to be above this.
Blue_Adept
(6,435 posts)So it's pretty much expected.
Once you get out of that circle and into other articles that talk about her, before her win and afterwards, you see it more since you're getting into the crowd that can take the time to write what she's done, where she's been, how it influences here and so forth. Mainstream media is just the superficial coating.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)And unlike a lot of actors who look half assed their first year or so till they find the best stylists, she came out of the gate looking just so chic, really flawless. I have no doubt she has great taste herself, as he made the final pick of dresses.
So, on a purely superficial level she made a huge stir for putting in a great appearance. Red carpet pics are a huge fashion/ beauty thing these days (much more so than runway pics) and I have to say, she absolutely killed it.
If she looked goofy, I guess they'd only be talking about how talented she is, and making unfortunate comments about her dresses, hair, and whatever.