Loners
Related: About this forumBrand new here.
Not sure if I fit in.
Sometimes I "force" myself to be with people because it's good for me. Other times, I'm truly gregarious. And hilarious. At least to me. After a few drinks.
I live with only my husband of 39 years and our various animals, out in the country. We have one grown daughter - born after 13 years of marriage. It was an intentional decision. She is our crown jewel.
Atticus
(15,124 posts)GitRDun
(1,846 posts)I married a cruel narcissistic woman.
I am largely estranged from 3 daughters who learned how to treat men from their mother.
I have a son who I am exceptionally close with.
Without disclosing much else I have learned in my life that putting too much trust in others can really hurt you.
Taking control over your ecosystem for a while is not the worst thing in the world.
Just my opinion.
BigMin28
(1,387 posts)From one loner to another.
Meadowoak
(6,151 posts)vercetti2021
(10,386 posts)Just hang out and relax
dweller
(24,889 posts)i've read your posts for years 👍🏻
but you're new to the loners forum, and for reasons of your own have decided to join us ... welcome !
we're a mostly quiet bunch 😎
✌🏼
littlemissmartypants
(25,123 posts)I am going to go out on a limb here and say that I suspect many of us here are misfits of one sort or another.
If you haven't already done it you might have fun taking the test.
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1237&pid=526
Thanks for sharing and welcome to the Loners Group. ❤
Karadeniz
(23,359 posts)cilla4progress
(25,795 posts)I feel welcome.
Thank you.
Aristus
(68,217 posts)Welcome.
It's good to know that even we happily married people can consider ourselves loners.
cilla4progress
(25,795 posts)Well, my husband is even more of a loner than me! 🤣
Aristus
(68,217 posts)cilla4progress
(25,795 posts)🤣🤣😁🍺🐕😛
backtoblue
(11,676 posts)The Loner Group is like finding a secret hidey hole behind a bookcase. We're the cool, secret room of DU!
Love seeing ya on the outside, but welcome to our little sanctuary!
Aristus
(68,217 posts)I like being here.
In school, I was unpopular even with the other unpopular kids. So it's nice to have a sanctum sanctorum...
yonder
(10,002 posts)And after 35 years, Mrs. yonder and I have 2 Crown Jewels, shining for all to see.
Welcome, c4p!