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Marthe48

(19,623 posts)
Tue Jan 7, 2025, 07:18 PM Jan 7

The hits keep coming

Just heard that one of our old friends passed away. He was 81. At one time, he was good friends with my husband and became good friends with most of the people in our family. He was a party guy and in the 70s, in our 20s, that was perfect. In the 80s, in our 30s, not so much. My husband and I settled down to raise our kids and got away from drinking parties and all nighters. There were adjustments in our 40s and most of our family members, moved to other places. Our friend stayed. We lost touch with him, even though he was an important part of our lives for many years. I was sad to hear that he is gone. Most of the people I knew then have passed on.

I'll go raise a glass to friendship.

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The hits keep coming (Original Post) Marthe48 Jan 7 OP
That's one of the downsides of getting older... Enter stage left Jan 7 #1
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Jan 7 #2
Hugs. Srkdqltr Jan 7 #3
So sorry to hear this. Basso8vb Jan 7 #4
... Drum Jan 7 #5
Your friend Clouds Passing Jan 7 #6
First, im sorry kozar Jan 10 #7
Thanks, Koz Marthe48 Jan 10 #8

Enter stage left

(3,883 posts)
1. That's one of the downsides of getting older...
Tue Jan 7, 2025, 07:24 PM
Jan 7

Is the good friends and loved relatives you lose along the way.

Srkdqltr

(7,848 posts)
3. Hugs.
Tue Jan 7, 2025, 07:34 PM
Jan 7

A lady i have known for 25 years died last week. She was a quilting friend. We went to the same classes and retreats . I'll miss her. Made me think of all the women who i quilted with over the years. All good ladies and missed. But I'll miss her most of all.

To good friends.

Basso8vb

(559 posts)
4. So sorry to hear this.
Tue Jan 7, 2025, 07:36 PM
Jan 7

I'm raising a glass to your friend along with you. He was lucky to have you as a friend.

To friendship!

kozar

(2,956 posts)
7. First, im sorry
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 06:08 PM
Jan 10

Death happens, we xon't control it, we, deal, with the aftermath
Your feelings are normal,, dont put blame on you

Koz.

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