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A Gay Employee at a Catholic Church Is Resigning After Threats to His Family
By Hemant Mehta, October 23, 2018
Aaron Bianco is a married gay man who also happens to be a devout Catholic. I have plenty of questions Id love to ask him all of which hes surely been asked a million times before but the point is hes attempting to create change from the inside rather than abandon the Church altogether. I dont think thats possible, but more power to him for his unwarranted optimism.
The problem is that plenty of conservatives are furious that hes involved with the Church at all. Bianco serves as a pastoral associate at St. John the Evangelist Parish in San Diego, California. Unlike a priest, Biancos same-sex marriage is permitted in his role, but that doesnt mean everyone accepts it, and the backlash recently went from frustrating to dangerous.
Last week, someone spray-painted the phrase no fags on the inside of the building on an office wall. It happened after conservative Christian websites began going after him:
The Rev. James Martin, a Catholic priest who is a friend of Biancos and has worked for LGBTQ inclusion in the church, detailed some of the actions in a Tuesday Facebook post.Aarons tires have been slashed; he has received threatening emails (some 60 over the last two months), including death threats; letters on his car have been left, one saying, Sodomites not welcome in the church. One man physically attacked him at the end of Mass, and had to be prevented by other parishioners from hurting him. This is what hate does, especially the kind of hate whipped up online.
Martin blamed right-wing websites such as Church Militant and LifeSite News for encouraging homophobia. One Church Militant article, for example, accused Bianco and the San Diego diocese of promoting an LBGT agenda. Another said faithful Catholics at Biancos parish are suffering persecution by a homosexualist cabal and that the church is being corrupted. LifeSite News has urged readers to sign a petition calling for Biancos firing. A far-right Catholic group called the Lepanto Institute has also objected to the parishs employment of Bianco and called Biancos husband his sodomitical partner.
Typical Christian love right there.
MineralMan
(147,024 posts)I can't imagine staying in such a situation. Those who are attacking him should be publicly shamed from the pulpit. Sadly, that probably won't happen.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)sex, when they should be thinking of LOVE ❤️
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)Yeah, or it could be mainstream Catholic dogma encouraging homophobia. Guess we'll never know...
gtar100
(4,192 posts)And not just catholic dogma but most Christian denominations, Islam, and others that go all apoplectic over people being gay. It's insane.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)And it isn't just most denominations, but the most populous denominations as well. People are always quick to point out their tiny 32nd South Central Worcester 181st Synod Universalist Presbyterian Pastafarian Church is gay-friendly, and while that's fantastic, it is statistically meaningless when the gargantuan Roman Catholic Church, as it is organized, is decidedly hostile. Fighting homophobia on the fringes of religion won't make a huge difference when mainstream denominations with huge memberships and plenty of cash to throw around continue to go unchallenged.
Permanut
(6,332 posts)Jesus would be so proud.