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Are your grandkids doing too much? (Original Post) trof Nov 2016 OP
Their time is pretty structured......but CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2016 #1
Working husband, at home mom, in our case. trof Nov 2016 #2
Ours is only two months old. Liberal Jesus Freak Nov 2016 #3
FORTUNATELY not. elleng Nov 2016 #4
Maybe not too much but... RealityChik Dec 2016 #5
I think that middle class and upper middle class families PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2017 #6
I agree. trof Mar 2017 #7
Soccer practice at 8 p.m.? PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2017 #8

CaliforniaPeggy

(151,892 posts)
1. Their time is pretty structured......but
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 07:35 PM
Nov 2016

since both parents work full-time, they feel that in order for their children to have a happy childhood, there has to be some planning so they don't sit around after school just staring at their electronic toys.

They do a lot of sports. Also piano lessons, gymnastics and like that.

They do look happy! And they are fit besides.

I'd say they have the right mix, though it's hard to tell from 50 miles away and not getting to see them very much.

trof

(54,270 posts)
2. Working husband, at home mom, in our case.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 07:41 PM
Nov 2016

Husband brings in 6 figure income.
We're happy he can do that.
Wife is devoted to kids.
So is husband.

We just think the kids have not much time to just be kids.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,607 posts)
6. I think that middle class and upper middle class families
Fri Mar 3, 2017, 05:18 PM
Mar 2017

tend to over structure their kids' time. They rarely have empty hours just to be on their own, and as a consequence they have a very low boredom threshold.

Some structure is good. Every minute of the day structured is not. There is a happy midpoint, which will vary with the child and parents.

trof

(54,270 posts)
7. I agree.
Fri Mar 3, 2017, 05:49 PM
Mar 2017

When we visit, our grandkids seem to be straight out 24/7.
Of course there's time for homework, but most of the rest of the time seems to be taken up with soccer, lacrosse, gymnastics, drum lessons, ballet, guitar lessons, etc.

Soccer practice at 8 p.m.?
On a school night?
Really?

I say nothing.
I'm at least THAT smart.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,607 posts)
8. Soccer practice at 8 p.m.?
Fri Mar 3, 2017, 08:05 PM
Mar 2017

On a school night?

Oh, boy.

I don't have grandchildren. Neither of my two grown sons seems at all inclined to reproduce, but if they do, I hope I can keep quiet about such things.

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