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raccoon

(31,424 posts)
Wed Feb 17, 2016, 03:36 PM Feb 2016

I am feeling some apprehension about adjusting to retirement. Don't get me wrong,

I want to retire. I am planning to retire in the next few years, but I'm starting to think about having so much
unstructured time. I know that doesn't work for me, so I'm planning to seek part-time work and/or do some volunteer
work.

Also planning to move to a nearby city because I have a sibling there (don't have family here). I have no spouse or kids.
I'm counting the days but sometimes I think, do I really want to do this? Funny, I never thought before what a big adjustment it is.



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I am feeling some apprehension about adjusting to retirement. Don't get me wrong, (Original Post) raccoon Feb 2016 OP
Careful with work and SS. Warren Stupidity Feb 2016 #1
Good you're anticipating and planning. elleng Feb 2016 #2
I've been retired for a few years and having "unstructured time" is the best part. lamp_shade Feb 2016 #3
My personal advice is that you must have a life outside of work. SheilaT Feb 2016 #4
I absolutely love retirement. Curmudgeoness Feb 2016 #5
I retired 10 years at age 52. LiberalFighter Apr 2016 #6
 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
1. Careful with work and SS.
Wed Feb 17, 2016, 03:42 PM
Feb 2016

There can be tax consequences

That said- find something you feel good about doing and do that.

elleng

(135,784 posts)
2. Good you're anticipating and planning.
Wed Feb 17, 2016, 04:08 PM
Feb 2016

My retirement wasn't exactly planned, more like thrust upon me, and tho I do have family, some nearby and some not so much, I'm sorry I'm not still actually working. It is a big adjustment. Do your best to find something(s) with which to occupy your time.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
4. My personal advice is that you must have a life outside of work.
Thu Feb 18, 2016, 12:47 AM
Feb 2016

If you don't, you won't have a clue what to do with yourself. So do other things besides your job.

Many years ago I tended to define myself by my job. Then I started doing some volunteer work (I became a docent at the Natural History Museum of the Smithsonian) and boy, did I change. Two things happened. The first was that I understood I was NOT my job. I was a person who did that job. And then I went back to school, and remained in school for the next three decades, on and off. Wow.

Fast forward, somewhat, to my own retirement. I left work almost exactly two years ago, and this evening by lovely coincidence I ran into a former co-worker whom I had not seen since then. Her first comment was how happy I seemed. How nice was that.

I write, I travel, I hang out with friends. I've actually done a trivial amount of temp work, but since I hate getting up before about 10am, that's a bit tricky.

Anyway, it does sound as if you're thinking about it in a very good way, making the kind of changes you need to make. Good for you.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
5. I absolutely love retirement.
Thu Feb 18, 2016, 08:19 PM
Feb 2016

With that said, I was free (yes, FREE) for a year and a half, then I just got talked into going back to work for a friend. Part time, but it has reminded me of all the things that suck about working. Stress that I have not felt since leaving the workforce. Having to be there at a set time and stay until a set time. Alarm clocks. The list is long for me.

After I retired, I kept asking myself how I found the time to get everything done, and now I realize...I didn't get everything done. I don't cook as much and end up coming home and fixing a hot dog. I almost killed my plants because I forgot when to water them. I am not sleeping as well. I don't feel as if I get relaxing time. I had to give up walking dogs at a rescue. The list of things not getting done (or not getting done well) is also long.

But, if you don't think that it would be wonderful to be free from all the restrictions from working, you don't have to retire. Keep working if you want to. Just because you get to a certain age, that doesn't mean that you are required to stop working. But I bet that you will find it enjoyable if you get your mind in the right place.

LiberalFighter

(53,440 posts)
6. I retired 10 years at age 52.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 11:22 PM
Apr 2016

Never regretted it. I keep busy with a few activities. Officer in a retiree chapter, involve in local politics, fill time with genealogy, and database applications or computer related interests.

I save about 30 gallons of gas a month. I don't eat out as much. It is easier to eat at home and save time and money. I don't have to get up early in the morning to go to work. I absolutely do not miss it.

For some their job is their identity. So if that is the case you need to invent a new identity that makes you happy.

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