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bif

(23,889 posts)
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:05 PM Jun 2023

Does it ever bug you when you see people drinking in a movie?

On the one hand, it reminds me of when I used to drink. On the other hand, I think, "Do you have to drink to have fun"? And it seems like they do a lot of drinking in movies

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Does it ever bug you when you see people drinking in a movie? (Original Post) bif Jun 2023 OP
I never judge other people who are drinking, I've become a lot less prone to judgment in my old age Walleye Jun 2023 #1
I have quit almost as long as you. What I remember is hangovers, acting like an ass and guilt. Chainfire Jun 2023 #9
No but Mr Lake quit smoking decades ago... LakeArenal Jun 2023 #2
Smoking in movies bothers me. murielm99 Jun 2023 #13
Shocking today to see Dr Ben Casey, Sheriff Taylor and Ward Clever smoke. LakeArenal Jun 2023 #15
what's with wine glasses Skittles Jun 2023 #3
Not a bother at all. Polly Hennessey Jun 2023 #4
Yes it does. Lazy writing which was bought by the producers, director, Tetrachloride Jun 2023 #5
you see it a lot in British shows too. I was never a drinker, so it only strikes me that the demigoddess Jun 2023 #7
exactly. the original All Creatures Great and Small for one Tetrachloride Jun 2023 #12
I remember one time at a movie theater, some kids in front of me had snuck in a few beers... Blue Owl Jun 2023 #6
Yes, epecially when it hasn't a thing to do with the story or when they finish a bottle of ... marble falls Jun 2023 #8
No, and I'm a complete tea-totaler TlalocW Jun 2023 #10
What bugs me is how much money people spend in bars intrepidity Jun 2023 #11
to get lucky GenXer47 Jun 2023 #16
Interesting ---- smoking used to be found in most film and tv scenes. Cigs were an actor's 3Hotdogs Jun 2023 #14
I have been caught a few times on watching DVDs of old shows irisblue Jun 2023 #17
How about TV? Watch the first episode of the Mary Tyler Moore Show. First scene, they make brewens Jun 2023 #18
I see it, but it doesn't bother me RainCaster Jun 2023 #19

Walleye

(35,147 posts)
1. I never judge other people who are drinking, I've become a lot less prone to judgment in my old age
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:13 PM
Jun 2023

But yes sometimes I can almost taste the single malt scotch. Or especially on a hot day a cold beer in a movie can make me thirsty. I’ve quit for almost 30 years now so it doesn’t really tempt me that much anymore. You keep up the good work yourself

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
9. I have quit almost as long as you. What I remember is hangovers, acting like an ass and guilt.
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:51 PM
Jun 2023

When I see people in the movies or on TV drinking hard, I feel a little smug about knowing where it will eventually lead them. Been there, done that kind of thing. Regardless of what some folk believe, I don't think that alcohol improves any facet of life; it just creates illusions.

For the past year or so, my wife and I have been watching British crime dramas where the totality of life is work and pub with little room for anything else except extramarital affairs. While it looks fun from the outside I sense ruin and depression behind the scenes.

LakeArenal

(29,748 posts)
2. No but Mr Lake quit smoking decades ago...
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:18 PM
Jun 2023

But he still jones when he sees an almost whole burning cig thrown down at the entrance to a business.

Good luck.

Skittles

(158,510 posts)
3. what's with wine glasses
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:23 PM
Jun 2023

it's like they have gotten HUGE, and people in movies / TV always drinking that stuff, ugh

Tetrachloride

(8,443 posts)
5. Yes it does. Lazy writing which was bought by the producers, director,
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:31 PM
Jun 2023

assistant director, rewriting team and or the cast.

demigoddess

(6,673 posts)
7. you see it a lot in British shows too. I was never a drinker, so it only strikes me that the
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:42 PM
Jun 2023

people are poor otherwise but can afford expensive scotch and champagne!!!!

Blue Owl

(54,613 posts)
6. I remember one time at a movie theater, some kids in front of me had snuck in a few beers...
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:34 PM
Jun 2023

The manager of the theater somehow found out and came in during the movie, and walked up the aisle pointing at them saying "Hey you kids can't do that, this is a public theater..." problem was, as he leaned over to point at them a flask fell out of his inside coat pocket, which I found tremendously funny...

marble falls

(61,996 posts)
8. Yes, epecially when it hasn't a thing to do with the story or when they finish a bottle of ...
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:42 PM
Jun 2023

... wine and get into a car.

TlalocW

(15,623 posts)
10. No, and I'm a complete tea-totaler
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:51 PM
Jun 2023

However, I do notice continuity errors with the level of liquid in a glass in certain scenes. Wine glasses magically fill back up, etc. That's kind of irksome.

intrepidity

(7,866 posts)
11. What bugs me is how much money people spend in bars
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 01:55 PM
Jun 2023

I have never been to a bar for drinks so I don't understand the whole scene.

3Hotdogs

(13,345 posts)
14. Interesting ---- smoking used to be found in most film and tv scenes. Cigs were an actor's
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 02:35 PM
Jun 2023

"what to do" with hands while being filmed. Hand position is difficult on film and even in real life.

Bars, drinking are to carry a scene. Maybe, as pointed in another post, lazy writing.


Does it reflect real life? I remember when I was a 'ute, middle class neighborhood --- N.J.. Almost every house had ashtrays. Some were just for guests who might need one ( or the homeowner needing to stop furniture from catching fire.

Anyway, I haven't seen an ashtray in years. I wouldn't know where to buy on if I wanted one.


Drinking. Still available and common when visiting or having friends over. Beyond that, my favorite alcohol is gin. I have two bottles in the house. They have been there for years. One is 3/4 full. The other is unopened. I may have two or three gin and tonics this summer.


Friends serve beer and soda at gatherings.

Grandson turned 21. He and his friends will have one or two red cups of beer when gathering.

Drinking is becoming less prominent in our culture.

irisblue

(34,172 posts)
17. I have been caught a few times on watching DVDs of old shows
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 03:20 PM
Jun 2023

I don't have a TV, so I do watch DVDs. The shows Rescue Me (2004-11) was almost a Jamison ad. I Drank Jamison for awhile. I'm rewatching Leverage now after seeing it in broadcast (2008-12), while Nate Ford functional alcoholism was an established plot point, I really did not see it on live, now on the DVDs, holy cow did that character drink.

 

brewens

(15,359 posts)
18. How about TV? Watch the first episode of the Mary Tyler Moore Show. First scene, they make
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 03:48 PM
Jun 2023

Lou Grant (Ed Asner) the loveable drinking man. The to be great boss pulls out a bottle to sweeten up his coffee and asked Mary, who is there for an interview if she wants "a blast". That's what we grew up with.

RainCaster

(11,504 posts)
19. I see it, but it doesn't bother me
Tue Jun 27, 2023, 05:08 PM
Jun 2023

It's one of those things I can't do anything about, so I just chill out.

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