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JonLP24

(29,348 posts)
Tue Oct 29, 2019, 12:40 PM Oct 2019

I was dogpiled for saying I don't find victim blaming funny

The Hill published an article on Dave Chappelle & political correctness & said he never wanted to take away someone's freedom of experssion. All I said was I never found victim blaming to be funny and I thought comedians were supposed to be funny. The reason I said that is Chappelle showed more sympathy with Bill Cosby, Louis CK, Michael Jackson and made jokes at the victim's expense.

Also whenever I read victim blaming on a message board or something I never laughed. I never told anyone not to watch his show but I'm being ripped by conservatives including conservative women who called me a pansy. I'm sorry I can never think of a scenario where I find victim blaming funny.

For background

Dave Chappelle’s Netflix special targets Michael Jackson’s accusers, #MeToo, and cancel culture
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/2019/8/29/20835637/dave-chappelle-netflix-special-hidden-ending-cancel-culture

Also this article turned out to be true.

All the Worst White People Love Dave Chappelle's Sticks and Stones

https://www.google.com/amp/s/verysmartbrothas.theroot.com/all-the-worst-white-people-love-dave-chappelles-sticks-1837747273/amp


Am I wrong here?

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I was dogpiled for saying I don't find victim blaming funny (Original Post) JonLP24 Oct 2019 OP
I watched it once lapfog_1 Oct 2019 #1
No you are not wrong Soph0571 Oct 2019 #2
No, you're not wrong. whathehell Oct 2019 #3
It is a word I seen for when people on Twitter pile on you JonLP24 Oct 2019 #4
Okay, thanks...I suspected that was it's meaning whathehell Oct 2019 #5
I don't think you're wrong. I used to watch The Chapelle Show and he can be terifically funny if abqtommy Oct 2019 #6

lapfog_1

(30,059 posts)
1. I watched it once
Tue Oct 29, 2019, 12:52 PM
Oct 2019

and thought two things.

1. Inappropriate and not funny

2. I wonder if Chappelle was a victim of childhood sexual abuse. ( the bit about "awkward Thanksgivings" )

I like Chappelle... I have the entire "Chappelle Show" DVD collection. But maybe he needs to drop this part of his act permanently.

Soph0571

(9,685 posts)
2. No you are not wrong
Tue Oct 29, 2019, 12:58 PM
Oct 2019

The reason why so many men get away with so much crap is because victim blaming is ingrained in our cultures. It needs to be challenged every time. The reason conservative women pile in in these circumstances is that their agency has been so irretrievably linked with their husband of father, any because they cannot conceive of shit landing on their own laps because they live inside their husbands bubble of privilege. They do not even realise they have seceded their agency for a 'protective' patriarchal right wing model that has existed for generations.

whathehell

(29,707 posts)
3. No, you're not wrong.
Tue Oct 29, 2019, 01:14 PM
Oct 2019

Misogynists, victim-blamers, and rapists are wrong.



PS. What exactly is "dogpiling"?




JonLP24

(29,348 posts)
4. It is a word I seen for when people on Twitter pile on you
Tue Oct 29, 2019, 01:18 PM
Oct 2019

Last edited Tue Oct 29, 2019, 03:03 PM - Edit history (1)

I have lots of conservatives in my notifications. Sorry for not coming up with a better word. I guess ratio is another one but I only have conservatives ratioing me.

Dogpiling occurs when a comment thread is bombarded by a mob of rabid dissidents who unleash a torrent of insults designed to make you take back your opinion or scare you.
https://computer.howstuffworks.com/10-forms-online-harassment7.htm

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
6. I don't think you're wrong. I used to watch The Chapelle Show and he can be terifically funny if
Tue Oct 29, 2019, 01:23 PM
Oct 2019

he tries but I decided that most of his act was based on the "gotcha principle" and was too negative for me. This is the first time I've expressed those feelings to anyone, anywhere.

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