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Center for Reproductive Rights
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Arkansas recently passed a new law that would require a woman to notify the man who impregnated her before obtaining an abortioneven in cases of abuse or sexual assault.
Its one of multiple new and cruel measures Arkansas politicians have devised to rob women of their right to safe and legal abortion this yearand we filed a lawsuit to fight back.
We were in court this week challenging Arkansas notification requirement and other restrictions that limit a womans right to an abortion. Chip in $25 today to help fund our lawsuit and fight this unconstitutional law.
From essentially banning abortion in the second trimester to violating women's privacy, these measures represent a new low.
The Supreme Court made clear one year ago in the Whole Womans Health v. Hellerstedt decision that politicians cant stand between women and their constitutional rights. We will continue to use the full force of the law to ensure these rights are protected and respected for all women.
Are you with us? Chip in now to help fund our legal work and ensure that all women are able to access safe abortion care.
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Nancy Northup
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Eliot Rosewater
(32,528 posts)take away the rights of women in this country, be prepared for hell on earth.
Proud liberal 80
(4,300 posts)I don't understand why the man has no rights. If the baby is born then everyone will say that it's his responsibility to take care of the child , too. So why doesn't he get s choice.
pirateshipdude
(967 posts)A father, uncle, brother. There are lots of scenarios in your position that I am not seeing you consider.
Proud liberal 80
(4,300 posts)pirateshipdude
(967 posts)Because that is the reality a lot of the times. Married, committed relationships of two rational, and reasonable persons generally is not going to have the wife sneaking off for an abortion and would already be having the conversation with the husband.
So, just what is your point? I made mine. What about all the situation I named off where the woman's life is at risk or their is a control issue or she was raped, raped by a father, brother, uncle. What about all those women?
Proud liberal 80
(4,300 posts)Then of course abortion should be an option for those women.
I am not a "pro-lifer". They are crazy. I Don't even like calling them pro-life because in reality they aren't really pro-life, they are anti-choice and pro-birth. Liberals are more pro-life than any of them because we actually care about what happens to the child after birth.
But I guess I am not all the way pro-choice in the way the definition is now. I am pro-choice with both individuals getting a say (if the scenario does not fit one of the scenarios you mentioned)
That doesn't mean I want all abortion clinics closed or want to take funds away from planned parenthood, etc...
pirateshipdude
(967 posts)Men are not having their bodies change for a lifetime. I would suggest in a situation where reason is to be had, and not the circumstance I spelled out, there will be a discussion and an agreeable resolution one way or another. But, other than hoping for the best of who we are, because the burden is exclusively on women, it leaves the decision to the woman.
Personally, I believe that there should be a conversation.
As law though, it has to be exclusively the woman's decision.
Fresh_Start
(11,340 posts)if the man wants to make a financial arrangement where he pays both the woman and the childs costs for life...then they can contractually agree to a surrogacy type agreement
the arrangement where the man pays the woman's expenses should continue even if the child does not survive...because the woman will still have physical, emotional, and financial implications of the pregnancy and the loss.
Freddie
(9,670 posts)The minute he endures pregnancy and childbirth he gets an equal say.
Proud liberal 80
(4,300 posts)But immediately after birth the baby is both of their responsibilities.
pirateshipdude
(967 posts)Freddie
(9,670 posts)She cannot give the baby up for adoption without his consent. If he refuses and chooses to take custody and raise the child, she is liable for child support.
J_William_Ryan
(2,058 posts)explained why in 1992. See Planned Parenthood v. Casey.
Proud liberal 80
(4,300 posts)I just read it.
Funny how I disagree with what was upheld. But also disagree on what was struck down. Seems like the Justices were all over the place too besides Souter, Kennedy, and O'Conner.
I don't think there should be a 24hr waiting period, informed consent, or parental notification and think they create an undue burden which means I am to the left on that decision.
But I think there should be spousal awareness which means I am to the right on that decision.
Freddie
(9,670 posts)What if she's in an abusive relationship and he beats or kills her upon being notified? What if the reason she had the abortion was to not be tied down to an abuser? Sorry, it's her body and her life, case closed.