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Related: About this forumSometimes you have to put aside the BF Skinner behavioral modification
and use common sense.
I substitute teach in a public school. I'm honored that I'm placed in classes for special needs students. Levels fourth grade to eighth grade. I've known some of them since they were six years old.
Yesterday, one lad (12 years old) was really having a bad day. Refusing to work, shouting, cursing (yeah, the "f word" ), yelling for his classmates to "shut the f*ck up" when they weren't even talking, throwing things, hitting his aide. Not behaving like his usual self.
My first impression was maybe it was the stirrings of puberty with hormones in the driver's seat. I observed some more. I went to his aide and whispered, "He's acting this way b/c he's constipated." She looked me incredulously, thought about it, and figured, "Hey, we've tried everything else . . . . "
He was led to the classroom bathroom, stayed for about 10 minutes. When he emerged, all the anger was gone. Apparently he WAS constipated and his "stomach" really hurt badly, but he couldn't connect the problem with a solution.
My point: some things in education have nothing to do with psychology and theories. It's the child.
Research summary
In our clinical practice, parents consistently report a number of abnormal behavioural patterns like irritability, aggression, temper tantrums, disrupted sleep patterns, straining and withholding behaviour more frequently in children with constipation.
https://www.hra.nhs.uk/planning-and-improving-research/application-summaries/research-summaries/behavioral-problems-in-childhood-constipation/#:~:text=In%20our%20clinical%20practice%2C%20parents,frequently%20in%20children%20with%20constipation.
jaxexpat
(7,669 posts)Hat's off to ya.
no_hypocrisy
(48,628 posts)samnsara
(18,281 posts)..where he whispered affirmations into the ear of a student who was doing particularly bad and charted the students improvement. Sometimes just a concerned whisper in the ear makes them feel empowered to succeed..or to share a tummy issue. Maybe you did just this by giving this student the private personal attention they needed to solve their problem.
japple
(10,292 posts)n/t
no_hypocrisy
(48,628 posts)That which is essential is invisible to the eye.
jmbar2
(6,038 posts)Thanks for sharing this. Stomach problems are common among kids on the autism spectrum. I really hadn't connected that to their meltdowns, but makes sense.
It is such a privilege to be able to work with these kids.
Yesterday, I did an impromptu experiment to demonstrate photosynthesis, placing a leaf in water and then watching for oxygen bubbles. All the kids had magnifying glasses and could see the bubbles. I got hugs from all of them for it. Was not expecting that. I love these kids.
When they have a good day, it makes up for the bad days.
druidity33
(6,550 posts)of a kid on the spectrum... THANK YOU. We're looking to place our child in K come fall and are deciding between 2 schools. It's really all about the teachers... not the facilities, for us. We'll see how it goes. Transitions are ROUGH for these kids.
jmbar2
(6,038 posts)Early grades SPED can be pretty rough. Aim for the school with the highest teacher:kid ratio. It's really all about the staffing.
Good luck!
cachukis
(2,557 posts)cachukis
(2,557 posts)in their ending years that required pain medications, complain of just wanting to have a BM.
I have read of studies that show constipation as a contributor to headaches.
My golf swing is not as smooth if my morning routine did not go smoothly.
There is an oral opening in the body that exits in the south. It is a basic tunnel for the comings and goings of nutrients and then waste.
It is all about the flow.
niyad
(119,489 posts)many people do not realize that many meds impact elimination. Something so simple, and so overlooked.
druidity33
(6,550 posts)or the wrong breakfast food... or anxiety about participating... or really anything else. Being patient, attentive and observant when faced with a challenging child is not something everyone can do. THANK YOU.
K&R
PatSeg
(49,678 posts)That threw me back to childhood. Sometimes an uncomfortable piece of clothing can be torture for a child. The things that most of us can deal with must be even more difficult for a special needs child who cannot identify or explain the problem.
Seinan Sensei
(681 posts)from Two-and-a-Half Men
Joinfortmill
(16,331 posts)hadEnuf
(2,633 posts)They are all full of sh**.
japple
(10,292 posts)Tucker Carlson also.
moniss
(5,518 posts)of what the best teachers can mean to their students.