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KarenS

(4,748 posts)
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 05:30 PM Dec 27

My Husband just tested positive for COVID,,,,

damn,,,, We have avoided it all this time but now it's in our space. We live in Senior Apartments and we are self-isolating, I think there's a little epidemic happening here,,,, Lots of folks are sick, but I wonder how many are not testing themselves for COVID. I plan on sleeping on the couch tonight, because I tested negative. I have emphysema and need to try to stay well. We have received all the vaccines for COVID so hopefully he will have a mild case.



I'm just whining,,,, thanks for listening.

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My Husband just tested positive for COVID,,,, (Original Post) KarenS Dec 27 OP
So sorry snowybirdie Dec 27 #1
Crack the window in his room, mask up to bring him food. Bluethroughu Dec 27 #2
And maybe wear gloves when removing used dishes. wnylib Dec 27 #15
eek. AllaN01Bear Dec 27 #3
Hugs to you both Duncanpup Dec 27 #4
Sorry XanaDUer2 Dec 27 #5
Oh no 🙄 please be very careful. 🙏 Hope you don't get sick 🙏 TommieMommy Dec 27 #6
Sorry to hear that. Paxlovid taken early on really helped lessen my symptoms. Dr called in an RX when I called. Nanuke Dec 27 #7
Not whining. sharing. Easterncedar Dec 27 #8
Good Luck that he stays mild & full recovery, and you stay free of it! electric_blue68 Dec 27 #9
Not whining. It is legitimate fear/ concern to get sick with covid period. Best wishes for all to get through it. Evolve Dammit Dec 27 #10
Good luck surfered Dec 27 #11
Oh no! Hhugggggg and healing vibes for both of you. Is he on paxlovid? niyad Dec 27 #12
I hope his case is mild. Best wishes to both of you. ificandream Dec 27 #13
Get him on some paxlovid as soon as possible! BComplex Dec 27 #14
It's still scary to get that positive test. JMCKUSICK Dec 27 #16
Sending you and your husband healing and protective energy 💚💚 Clouds Passing Dec 27 #17
Good luck. If it helps, I keep reading that a mouthwash containing CPC and saline nasal spray helps get it over mahina Dec 27 #18
Husband and I avoided it until January and always got a booster the week it was available. MLAA Dec 27 #19
My husband got Covid first. Hope22 Dec 27 #20
As tests are not free anymore G_j Dec 27 #21
I still have a collection of test kits, having gotten all the ones thhe government niyad Dec 27 #24
covidtests.gov (USPS) restarted free tests in September carpetbagger Dec 27 #25
Oh gosh, so sorry this KitFox Dec 27 #22
sorry to hear this orleans Dec 27 #23
I got it in January '24, after getting all the vaccine shots. JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 27 #26
How to get Paxlovid dwayneb Dec 28 #43
I told my primary doctor that I tested positive. JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 29 #44
Just bdamomma Dec 27 #27
Get a script for Paxlovid crimycarny Dec 27 #28
Not just "masks." SidneyR Dec 27 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author LetMyPeopleVote Dec 27 #30
Get started on Paxlovid LetMyPeopleVote Dec 27 #31
Hey, all you can do is what you can do. calimary Dec 27 #32
For future reference (since it's too late to do anything now) Ms. Toad Dec 27 #33
One Of Our Dog Park Crowd Did, Too ProfessorGAC Dec 27 #34
I got mine almost a month ago wolfie001 Dec 28 #35
We had it in August, murielm99 Dec 28 #36
If you can try to get PAxlovid Old Crank Dec 28 #37
Sorry you guys have to go through this. slightlv Dec 28 #38
My husband and daughter got it first - TBF Dec 28 #39
Unfortunately COVID is still with us, and will probably be a permanent part of our national experience. patphil Dec 28 #40
NAC and quercetin worked for me GreatGazoo Dec 28 #41
Having all the vaccines should guarantee a mild case. SleeplessinSoCal Dec 28 #42

snowybirdie

(5,792 posts)
1. So sorry
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 05:32 PM
Dec 27

Take the prescribed medication, rest and know there's a lot of folks pulling for you. Good luck

Nanuke

(612 posts)
7. Sorry to hear that. Paxlovid taken early on really helped lessen my symptoms. Dr called in an RX when I called.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 05:56 PM
Dec 27

Easterncedar

(3,760 posts)
8. Not whining. sharing.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 05:58 PM
Dec 27

It’s something to be concerned about. Best wishes for a speedy recovery for your spouse and continued safety for yourself.

Evolve Dammit

(19,606 posts)
10. Not whining. It is legitimate fear/ concern to get sick with covid period. Best wishes for all to get through it.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 06:11 PM
Dec 27

surfered

(4,516 posts)
11. Good luck
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 06:14 PM
Dec 27

We had all the shots, but caught it last fall for the first time. It was like a bad eight day cold, but the fatigue lasted a while longer.

mahina

(19,288 posts)
18. Good luck. If it helps, I keep reading that a mouthwash containing CPC and saline nasal spray helps get it over
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 06:37 PM
Dec 27

With faster and with less tough symptoms

MLAA

(18,807 posts)
19. Husband and I avoided it until January and always got a booster the week it was available.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 06:38 PM
Dec 27

Dear husband has COPD, so I was a quite anxious. I encouraged him to sleep a whole lot and every time he opened his eyes I gave him fluids. That plan worked and he really got through it in a few days without me ever being overly concerned. I too felt better in a few days. He tested negative in a week, it took me nearly a month to test negative.

Hope you both recover quickly and without any big issues! 💕

Edited to add: I tested positive first and took paxlovid immediately, tried to quarantine from him as best as I could. He tested a few days later, I got him paxlovid but ended up not giving it to him since he was doing pretty well and I’d read it can stretch out the length of time you have symptoms.

Hope22

(3,385 posts)
20. My husband got Covid first.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:00 PM
Dec 27

He stayed in the bedroom unless exiting masked to the bathroom. Window was cracked. There was a bin in the bedroom for dirty dishes , which were very limited. There was a garbage can in there for trash. Food was left at the door and served on disposable dishes and utensils whenever possible. Soup in paper cups. He sorted his dishes, disposed of all trash and put his laundry in a basket. I didn’t touch any of that. When he came out of quarantine he set all of that in the garage for a week. In the meantime I pushed as many fluids and healthy foods on him as I could! Food and meds were left at the door. I felt so much better not having his debris scattered around the place! Stay safe! Hugs and love to you!🤣😁💗💗

niyad

(121,581 posts)
24. I still have a collection of test kits, having gotten all the ones thhe government
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:15 PM
Dec 27

sent out, and picking up every free one I could to pass around. Gave away several dozen to people who were at risk, or had contracted it. I notice at my store, the kits are about $10.

KitFox

(154 posts)
22. Oh gosh, so sorry this
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:07 PM
Dec 27

is how you have to end the year! It is not whining! I appreciate you letting us know and it reminds us all to stay careful. There is lots of good advice in these posts. I’m hoping with your breathing issues you can avoid getting it. Take special care. Wishing you both excellent health in the new year.

orleans

(35,512 posts)
23. sorry to hear this
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:13 PM
Dec 27

my first thought was: get out and go stay at a hotel

but that might not be such a good idea -- you could catch something there too

do you have hepa air filters? turn them all on

do you have masks you can wear?

don't forget to wash your hands before touching your face/eyes/nose

maybe your husband can stay put in the bedroom (with the door closed)?

hope he recovers quickly and you don't come down with it

maybe you'll be able to find some ideas/help/answers at this link:
https://www.fda.gov/medical-devices/coronavirus-covid-19-and-medical-devices/understanding-home-otc-covid-19-antigen-diagnostic-test-results

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,920 posts)
26. I got it in January '24, after getting all the vaccine shots.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:21 PM
Dec 27

I could barely breathe, barely talk (more like squeaking). Paxlovid fixed me up fast. Maybe his doctor should give a prescription for it, so you can get it fast if necessary. If you don't have to fill the prescription, great.

Good luck.

dwayneb

(913 posts)
43. How to get Paxlovid
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 08:22 PM
Dec 28

How can the doctor be assured you really have Covid in order to issue the prescription for Paxlovid? Do you have to test positive in the office? By the time you get all of that done you've missed the best window for the Paxlovid right?

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,920 posts)
44. I told my primary doctor that I tested positive.
Sun Dec 29, 2024, 08:01 AM
Dec 29

She could tell over the phone that my breathing and speaking were less than ideal. She sent the prescription to the pharmacy immediately. No visit needed. It was fast

bdamomma

(67,218 posts)
27. Just
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:30 PM
Dec 27

take care of yourself. Try Paxlovid if you can. Self-isolation is needed. It's still out there, unfortunately.

crimycarny

(1,662 posts)
28. Get a script for Paxlovid
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:34 PM
Dec 27

If you haven't already I'd have your husband get a prescription for Paxlovid. My husband got COVID for the first time about 3 months ago. Got him on Paxlovid as soon as he tested positive. He only had a fever for about 2 days and a slight cough for about a week.

We both work from home so couldn't really avoid each other, but wore masks when in close proximity and he kept his office door closed. We also had two HEPA filter air purifiers going, one in his office and one in mine.

I never got COVID and my husband's symptoms were very mild.

SidneyR

(134 posts)
29. Not just "masks."
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:39 PM
Dec 27

N95 masks specifically. People seem to have forgotten that with the later variants, it was determined that other masks do not work!

Response to KarenS (Original post)

LetMyPeopleVote

(157,107 posts)
31. Get started on Paxlovid
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:49 PM
Dec 27

My oldest and a couple of my law partners have had recent cases. Paxlovid is amazing and I would not wait to get started on this medication

calimary

(85,035 posts)
32. Hey, all you can do is what you can do.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 08:30 PM
Dec 27

Hope you stay well, and that he gets to that point soon!

Ms. Toad

(35,796 posts)
33. For future reference (since it's too late to do anything now)
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 08:44 PM
Dec 27

Get an air purifier with a HEPA filter on it and put it near you on the couch.

Also wear your mask in the house.

I have caught COVID from my spouse and my daughter**, but not if I sit behind an air purifier, sleep separately, and wear a mask as much as possible. (I have a spouse who refuses to wear masks, so I have to protect myself. If you have a cooperative spouse, it is even better if they wear a mask.)

** From my spouse when we were on vacation and living in the same hotel room with no way to isolate (and she thought it was an allergy attack - which all of her prior scares were). From my daughter when she had some mild sniffly thing and didn't test (and didn't tell me she had something).

ProfessorGAC

(71,311 posts)
34. One Of Our Dog Park Crowd Did, Too
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 09:32 PM
Dec 27

She's on the mend but was feeling pretty bad for 3 or 4 days. She was never scared of how sick she was, but dud feel rotten.
Hope your husband has a similar outcome.

wolfie001

(3,964 posts)
35. I got mine almost a month ago
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 10:08 AM
Dec 28

Free with my drug plan. I'm on the Maryland ACA. I go on Medicare in a month and will not mess around with that virus. Good luck everyone!

murielm99

(31,605 posts)
36. We had it in August,
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 10:32 AM
Dec 28

for the first, and I hope, last time. We had Paxlovid, and got well quickly. Of course, we are vaxxed and boosted.

I still have serious shortness of breath after all this time. I hope it goes away someday.

Good luck and try to take care of yourselves!

Old Crank

(5,151 posts)
37. If you can try to get PAxlovid
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 10:44 AM
Dec 28

I got Covid in August and the PAxlovid stomped on the symptom in one day.
I still stested positive for 5 days but felt pretty well.

All teh best.

slightlv

(4,668 posts)
38. Sorry you guys have to go through this.
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 10:58 AM
Dec 28

DH and I have managed to stay free of it so far, but I worry about it. You just know your turn is coming at some point. Mom is in memory care and after each holiday we get notified there's been an outbreak. Mom has tested positive 5 times since the original pandemic but other than the symptoms of a bad cold, she's been asymptomatic each time.

I know you, like us, have kept up on your shots. I hope it lessens any severity for your hubby and that he recovers quickly. Healing thoughts coming your way, if you don't mind.

TBF

(34,970 posts)
39. My husband and daughter got it first -
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 11:01 AM
Dec 28

mild cases. I didn't get it until fall 2022 (had to travel due to death in family).

I am immune suppressed due to meds, so I had an infusion and started on Paxlovid. I had already had vaccines by then as well. I think all of those helped, but also inhaler and codeine cough syrup were key. Coughing was my worst symptom. I did stay positive for about 3 weeks, even when feeling a lot better.

patphil

(7,283 posts)
40. Unfortunately COVID is still with us, and will probably be a permanent part of our national experience.
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 11:17 AM
Dec 28

Like the flu, it's going to mutate and require new booster shots each year. Even then 10's of thousands of Americans will get it each year.

GreatGazoo

(4,041 posts)
41. NAC and quercetin worked for me
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 11:35 AM
Dec 28

Both are OTC. Quercetin is antiviral.

I keep them handy and use at the first sign of anything; first blip of fever or chills. Vit D also but I stay on that regardless, especially in winter.

Wishing the best for both of you.

ETA: This doctor turned me on to his regimen. He teaches doctors, does ER, respiratory expert, his father was a doctor:

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,819 posts)
42. Having all the vaccines should guarantee a mild case.
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 03:19 PM
Dec 28

We have two members of our extended family with emphysema. Another has MAC/serious lung disease. They all had mild cases despite being in their late 60's.

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