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XanaDUer2

(14,974 posts)
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 03:11 PM Dec 22

Embarassed

Driving everyone nuts talking about my jaw injury/ facial tingling/ pain. I'm officially a pain in the ass. I'm just so scared of the diagnosis, the cost, getting the work finished, symptoms getting worse. The facial sensation is the worst. Want work done and no more with the dentist.

I'm very embarrassed. I'm that person I never dreamed Id be.

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Embarassed (Original Post) XanaDUer2 Dec 22 OP
Stop it. Don't be embarrassed. You're scared. With good reason. LuckyCharms Dec 22 #1
Ty XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #3
You are not driving everyone nuts. You are in pain. You are under stress, You are worried Don't feel Embarrassed. debm55 Dec 22 #2
So much to talk abt tomorrow XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #9
And don't hold it in. Let it out. It will help you, You need to get it out. debm55 Dec 22 #15
I will XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #16
We are listening and we care. Nanuke Dec 22 #4
Ty XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #10
No worries nuxvomica Dec 22 #5
Its a night mare XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #11
Don't be. Sometimes we just need an outlet. Ocelot II Dec 22 #6
My partner will not listen XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #7
No one is forced to read anything. onecaliberal Dec 22 #8
True ty XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #12
Please don't be embarrassed Mike 03 Dec 22 #13
Ty XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #14
Agree with the previous posters biophile Dec 22 #17
Thank you XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #18
Agree with all the posts. I have social anxiety used to be very easily embarrassed. Ziggysmom Dec 22 #19
Very well said. n/t LuckyCharms Dec 22 #20
In just so scared XanaDUer2 Dec 22 #21

LuckyCharms

(19,408 posts)
1. Stop it. Don't be embarrassed. You're scared. With good reason.
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 03:13 PM
Dec 22

People here understand.

Vent as much and as often as you need to.

It's alright.

debm55

(41,003 posts)
2. You are not driving everyone nuts. You are in pain. You are under stress, You are worried Don't feel Embarrassed.
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 03:14 PM
Dec 22

nuxvomica

(13,099 posts)
5. No worries
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 03:26 PM
Dec 22

People don't have to read your posts and if it gives you even a modicum of relief to complain, please continue. I've known jaw pain and bite problems and they can be unending and escalating until fixed. I get fillings done without novacaine but that's nothing compared to a bite problem.

Ocelot II

(122,438 posts)
6. Don't be. Sometimes we just need an outlet.
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 03:26 PM
Dec 22

You've got a continuing problem that you haven't found a solution for (yet), and apparently little or no support IRL. If it helps to write about it you'll get a sympathetic hearing here.

XanaDUer2

(14,974 posts)
7. My partner will not listen
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 03:29 PM
Dec 22

Be has his own chronic pain and tells me he nvr complains to me. Not quite true. So no I'm not going to get much acknowledgment from him. The fact this treatment cleaned out my account doesn't help

Mike 03

(17,944 posts)
13. Please don't be embarrassed
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 03:53 PM
Dec 22

You've been through something really unfortunate that didn't have to happen that is causing you a lot of pain and fear. I'm glad you post so we know you are okay! So many of us have been in similar situations.

Hugs and good wishes.

Big DU hug to you

biophile

(548 posts)
17. Agree with the previous posters
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 04:58 PM
Dec 22

It’s understandable when you are in pain and feel isolated at home. Hope the New Year brings you better fortune in health and spirits.

Ziggysmom

(3,694 posts)
19. Agree with all the posts. I have social anxiety used to be very easily embarrassed.
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 06:22 PM
Dec 22

We all get so caught up in trying to do everything right, to keep our precious image perfect, that we don't allow ourselves any imperfections. I've finally realized now at 65 years of age that mistakes (whether real or perceived) are what make us approachable and human. Learning to ignore feelings of embarrassment and laugh at myself has given me a different perspective and a sense of freedom. I’ve gotten to that golden age where I don’t give a flug what others think.

You have love and support here, please don’t be embarrassed or hard on yourself.

XanaDUer2

(14,974 posts)
21. In just so scared
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 06:24 PM
Dec 22

Bc of my spreading symptoms. The headaches seem better. Think my chin is twitching. I don't know what's going on. Having panic attacks over this. Need to vent when I'm nervous tg 4 du bc I'm probably too much I'm just so scared

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