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Im very proud of my wife for sharing the details she did. Im disgusted by all of it. She found herself in one of those moments where she didnt care what she lost if it helped one other person. The reality is the truth dont care who tells it, but she told it. Love you
@allysammarco.bsky.social
I hate to break this to you guys, but for anybody who seems to think that theres some weird timing here going on or something like that and this is not real. This is all in writing. He did this in DMs and text messages and so forth and it is very very very real.
I wish this was not the case. I am somebody who believed in him and I am somebody who learned a lot about him myself today and I am very proud of Ally.
And one of the most admirable things I can ever say about her is that even after the first report came out, she said yes please use my name on the record. She hoped that if she put her name on the record that would help others whether it was to speak out or stop this from happening to somebody else.
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Iâm very proud of my wife for sharing the details she did. Iâm disgusted by all of it. She found herself in one of those moments where she didnât care what she lost if it helped one other person. The reality is the truth donât care who tells it, but she told it. Love you @allysammarco.bsky.social
— Adam Parkhomenko (@adamparkhomenko.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T00:27:17.258Z
I hate to break this to you guys, but for anybody who seems to think that thereâs some weird timing here going on or something like that and this is not real. This is all in writing. He did this in DMâs and text messages and so forth and it is very very very real.
— Adam Parkhomenko (@adamparkhomenko.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T00:45:13.528Z
I wish this was not the case. I am somebody who believed in him and I am somebody who learned a lot about him myself today and I am very proud of Ally.
— Adam Parkhomenko (@adamparkhomenko.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T00:45:52.302Z
And one of the most admirable things I can ever say about her is that even after the first report came out, she said yes please use my name on the record. She hoped that if she put her name on the record that would help others whether it was to speak out or stop this from happening to somebody else.
— Adam Parkhomenko (@adamparkhomenko.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T00:50:25.236Z
KT:
Sorry man, but why wait until now? All this shit being brought up when hes the leading candidate. Why now when hes been around in politics for years?
adam:
I cant speak for the timing of anything. All I know is that she had nothing to do with the timing, but when she got the call, she told the truth.
KT:
You both have been together for years, have 2 kids yet she never mentioned anything to you or family all this time right?Sorry bud, seems like
@cnn.com
and their scumbag owners sat on this until its time for the election. Give the accused little time to react or prove innocence. If true, fuck him.
adam:
Listen, I have shared and lifted up Eric online for years. Many of these details which were prior to us dating are new to me, and if I knew any of it, I wouldve never supported him for anything, including a retweet. But I respect her privacy, her story and everything that she has shared today.
schoolhouserox:
And for most women, that readiness takes a very long time. Decades even.
margaret g:
Exactly 💯
So much confusion, self-blame, abject fear. The moment any type of sexual misconduct occurs, the whirlwind of emotions that descends is overwhelming. It's not uncommon AT ALL for women not to speak up & put themselves at the mercy of complete strangers and their snap judgements.
https://bsky.app/profile/kton11.bsky.social
I canât speak for the timing of anything. All I know is that she had nothing to do with the timing, but when she got the call, she told the truth.
— Adam Parkhomenko (@adamparkhomenko.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T00:34:33.162Z
You both have been together for years, have 2 kids yet she never mentioned anything to you or family all this time right?Sorry bud, seems like @cnn.com and their scumbag owners sat on this until itâs time for the election. Give the accused little time to react or prove innocence. If true, fuck him.
— Dog person (@kton11.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T00:39:21.055Z
Listen, I have shared and lifted up Eric online for years. Many of these details which were prior to us dating are new to me, and if I knew any of it, I wouldâve never supported him for anything, including a retweet. But I respect her privacy, her story and everything that she has shared today.
— Adam Parkhomenko (@adamparkhomenko.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T00:42:05.235Z
And for most women, that readiness takes a very long time. Decades even.
— (@schoolhouserox.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T01:07:50.749Z
Exactly ð¯
— Margaret G (@mls0308.bsky.social) 2026-04-11T01:14:16.896Z
So much confusion, self-blame, abject fear. The moment any type of sexual misconduct occurs, the whirlwind of emotions that descends is overwhelming. It's not uncommon AT ALL for women not to speak up & put themselves at the mercy of complete strangers and their snap judgements.
msongs
(73,819 posts)orleans
(36,992 posts)Lifeafter70
(1,035 posts)And it broke my heart.
Unfortunately I recognized the grooming in the accounts told.
I so did not want to believe it.
aeromanKC
(3,905 posts)Dems need to rally around and get at least one candidate on the ballot and then of course bring that person across the finish line in November!! My guy is Tom Steyer!! (Was VERY impressed with him in the Presidential campaign!!)
Klarkashton
(5,348 posts)Other than that he hasn't done shit.
Pris
(160 posts)We don't need billionaires who can get on a ballot because they are billionaires. That's how we got Trump - money. Steyer has never held office.
Porter has held office and from what I remember people really loved her.
Tony Thurmond has held office
We have a track record on them.
aeromanKC
(3,905 posts)The Kennedy's had money and were/are American political Mt. Rushmore. (sans RFK Jr. Fuck him!!)
What distinguishes him as a person whos fit and worthy to be governor?
Pris
(160 posts)the more we cede our power to people with wealth.
More Elon Musks, Sam Altmans, Mercer's, Leonard Leo's
Experience counts. It alway has.
https://www.brookings.edu/articles/global-billionaires-political-power-index/
aeromanKC
(3,905 posts)choie
(6,935 posts)candidates who support progressive ideas and also have relevant experience. If he wants be in politics, he should run for city council.
Pris
(160 posts)Billionaires have increased tremendously and what we are experiencing with Trump and Russia is a billionaire agenda.
"Billionaires 4,000 times more likely to hold political office than ordinary people"
https://www.oxfamamerica.org/press/billionaire-wealth-jumps-three-times-faster-in-2025-to-highest-peak-ever-sparking-dangerous-political-inequality-says-oxfam/#:~:text=The%20collective%20wealth%20of%20billionaires,buy%20elections%20in%20their%20country.
aeromanKC
(3,905 posts)choie
(6,935 posts)UpInArms
(55,045 posts)I will never understand
magicarpet
(18,635 posts)fujiyamasan
(1,795 posts)Hopefully shell pick up the slack and get most of his support. Wasnt thrilled with some of her actions earlier like the videos with the staffer, but obviously circumstances have changed. Im skeptical of these allegations, but right now its too much noise.
Im probably getting behind Porter now.
Both him and Steyer need to drop out. This jungle primary could seriously still pit two republicans against each other.
Marie Marie
(11,351 posts)Another man who was smart enough to know better. Do they really think that this clandestine shit will never come out? Not to mention the betrayal to his family. And this sounds like it went beyond cheating - this sounds like true sexual assault/rape. That's it - time to vote for women to run the whole damn show. I'm sure we have a few pervs (Ms Maxwell for one) but I'm sure far fewer than the males who think all the women of the world find them irresistible and want them.
Oh and to THOSE guys (you know who you are) here is a clue: Unless a woman is already in either an intimate relationship or has been a consenting sexual partner with you - keep your Dick pics. No body is asking for those and maybe not even the women I mentioned above. Just don't even think about it - unsolicited, it grosses most women out.
JMHO - end of rant.
orleans
(36,992 posts)including that second paragraph (which also gave me a chuckle
)
róisín_dubh
(12,346 posts)Ive been with my partner for years and hes on the road a lot. Hell get a sense of my mood before he sends me any intimate photos. If Im tired or not feeling a sexy chat, hell leave me alone and I dont get a barrage of dick pics.
That, my dudes, is consent.