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Aviation Pro

(15,209 posts)
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 02:39 PM 2 hrs ago

The economics of hosting a non-denominational holiday party

This year the wife and I decided not to participate in the ritual known as “gifting.” Our reasons are documented here as we both believe that an economic calamity is in our future. But we also decided to host our local family members in a non-denominational holiday dinner and party. The affair was a success and there were barely any leftovers, which is always my goal when I do the cooking.

So, I sat down this morning and did a rough estimate of the economics of “gifting” celebrating for 13 friends and family. Here’s the breakdown (everything was made from scratch from purchased ingredients).

Food and Drink
Shrimp cocktail (2.5 lbs.) including cocktail sauce: $27.00
8.75 lbs. prime rib: $197.00
3 lbs. asparagus: $9.00
2 lbs. zucchini medley: $3.00
3 lbs. mashed red potatoes: $3.00
1 lbs. horseradish sauce for beef: $2.00
2 lbs. prepared au jus: $7.00
Basque (burnt) cheesecake: $18.00
Alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages: $60.00

Energy
31 kw @ 0.06 cents/kwh (we have solar): $1.86

Total Food and Drink:: $326.00
Energy (rounding up): $2.00
Total: $328.00
Per person: $25.00 (approximately)

I’d say this was a very prudent economic choice and everyone got to take home memories and pictures.

Political message: break the cycle of hyper consumerism and we take back out country.

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The economics of hosting a non-denominational holiday party (Original Post) Aviation Pro 2 hrs ago OP
$25 a head is a pretty good bargain... Wounded Bear 2 hrs ago #1
Doing the same here SheltieLover 2 hrs ago #2
Well done Aviation Pro 2 hrs ago #3
Thx! Forgot to say energy minimal as I cooked in convection toaster oven SheltieLover 2 hrs ago #8
Marinated Roast Chicken thighs in orange/chili baste haele 1 hr ago #11
Well done Aviation Pro 1 hr ago #12
Sounds delic! SheltieLover 1 hr ago #13
Almost exactly what my New years day party will cost FalloutShelter 2 hrs ago #4
Better per person cost Aviation Pro 2 hrs ago #6
I'm catering it out. FalloutShelter 2 hrs ago #10
Love it, that is real thinking bucolic_frolic 2 hrs ago #5
Thank you Aviation Pro 2 hrs ago #7
Same here SheltieLover 2 hrs ago #9

Wounded Bear

(63,776 posts)
1. $25 a head is a pretty good bargain...
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 02:41 PM
2 hrs ago

Don't need all that consumerism to celebrate the true spirit of the season.

SheltieLover

(76,195 posts)
2. Doing the same here
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 02:47 PM
2 hrs ago

2.5 lb turkey breast roast $11

Vinegar slaw

1 cabbage $2.25
1 green pepper $1
1 lg onion $1
2 packets Zezty Ital Dressing $1
1 cup cider vinegar 50 cents

2 sweet potatoes. $1.50
Butter & margerine 25-cents

1 can cranberries $1.50

1 can corn 65-cents

And gs & I will have leftovers. Very inexpensive holiday meal.

SheltieLover

(76,195 posts)
8. Thx! Forgot to say energy minimal as I cooked in convection toaster oven
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 03:10 PM
2 hrs ago

& food proc ran maybe 10 min for slaw.

haele

(15,034 posts)
11. Marinated Roast Chicken thighs in orange/chili baste
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 03:36 PM
1 hr ago

($6 for the 10 piece thigh pack, Cara Cara oranges from next door)
3 lb bag Mashed potato ($2.50) with added end of season hass avocados (neighbors tree), seasoned with a bit garlic and Gerhardts menudo powder mix, served with "drippings" gravy.
Steamed (frozen bag -$1.75) succotash with butter, thyme, and dill.
Arugula ($2.00)/garden herb salad with nuts, dried fruit, oil and balsamic vinegrette.
Homemade Cranberry sauce ($2 bag for cranberries)
2 local bakery Sourdough baguettes ($6.00)
Additional 1 lb butter - $4
Dozen large eggs $2.50
1 gallon Milk and 2 qt heavy cream for eggnog (home made), $10
2 gallons apple cider - $7
All spices and herbs, plus home made Gingerbread "pudding" (steamed cake) with rum sauce from whatever was left over, in the cabinets or pantry - free.

Total holiday dinner out of pocket for enough food to feed 7 (5 family + 1 moocher):
$47/$48 at the Commissary.

Pretty decent for a semi-formal dinner. Of course, between living in San Diego where produce can be grown in neighborhood yard round and using whatever is on hand from regular cooking saves a lot of money.




FalloutShelter

(14,144 posts)
10. I'm catering it out.
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 03:23 PM
2 hrs ago

Sashimi platter, Vege sushi platter
Mini deli sandwiches in three varieties
Cheese tray, mini cannolis
Three salads (3lbs each)
20.68 per person.
Where I save is on booze. Asking partners to bring a bottle of champagne.
Not a sit down dinner… more like a cocktail party.
My home is too small for sit down.

I have used this caterer before and they are great.
Have a great party.

bucolic_frolic

(53,820 posts)
5. Love it, that is real thinking
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 03:07 PM
2 hrs ago

Plus you didn't run the risk of restaurant food poisoning. Priceless.

Aviation Pro

(15,209 posts)
7. Thank you
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 03:09 PM
2 hrs ago

I take great pains in the kitchen to keep my stations clean and prep everything properly.

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