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raccoon

(31,849 posts)
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:23 AM May 3

Do you think Trump is miserable most of the time?

Not suggesting, of course, that anyone should lose any sleep over it, if he is.

I know that when I'm acting mean toward others, I'm in a crappy mood and feel bad. I've heard others say the same thing about themselves.

When I'm in a good mood, I'm much less likely to take offense, make snarky remarks, etc.

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Do you think Trump is miserable most of the time? (Original Post) raccoon May 3 OP
Yes, DemMedic May 3 #1
All his life unweird May 3 #2
Yes BeerBarrelPolka May 3 #3
Yes choie May 3 #4
I wouldn't be miserable holding a high-profile position without having to actually put in the work. Shermann May 3 #5
Not likely True Dough May 3 #12
No. Mary Trump said he is a sociopath newdeal2 May 3 #6
It's BeerBarrelPolka May 3 #15
I doubt he feels much of anything but hate. Diamond_Dog May 3 #7
All the time. milestogo May 3 #8
I also Rebl2 May 3 #34
No. He gets off on the power. hamsterjill May 3 #9
And, he probably has a few prescriptions to help RandomNumbers May 3 #17
I hope he is. Glorfindel May 3 #10
I would imagine he's only miserable during those brief times when he's not making someone else miserable. Xavier Breath May 3 #11
Could be True Dough May 3 #22
He's like a pig in shit- he's a sadist. He loves being an asshole. Blues Heron May 3 #13
Only because moondust May 3 #14
Except when he is exacting misery on others. Ferrets are Cool May 3 #16
I certainly hope so. Extremely miserable, if possible. marble falls May 3 #18
He is constantly motivated to fill the empty void where his soul should be Fiendish Thingy May 3 #19
No, he's a narcissistic sociopath. He's loving being the center of attention, the ass kissing, the power surfered May 3 #20
He's probably golfing right now, gab13by13 May 3 #21
I once saw secret backstage video on YouTube, since taken down... Tommy Carcetti May 3 #23
He's only happy when he's pulling the wings off flies, or deporting brown people. Swede May 3 #24
Hopefully. He's carrying the weight of his voters hate, cruelty, selfishness, meanness, racism, Hotler May 3 #25
He's never been happy. no_hypocrisy May 3 #26
No question. Ocelot II May 3 #27
No, he's a narcissist Luvcatz14 May 3 #28
;-{) Goonch May 3 #29
I think of it like an addiction. He's desperately needs ever more praise and validation, and gets *pissed* when anyone unblock May 3 #30
No, not at all. Celerity May 3 #31
He is a bottomless pit of the need for constant attention PlanetBev May 3 #32
Don't know or care, but sure hope he is. republianmushroom May 3 #33
If there is any Justice he is Fichefinder May 3 #35

BeerBarrelPolka

(1,767 posts)
3. Yes
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:26 AM
May 3

I was married to a malignant narcissist. Even when they are "happy", they always self sabotage. They thrive on being the victim and being in a state of upheaval. Real happiness and contentedness is something they are not capable of.

Shermann

(8,938 posts)
5. I wouldn't be miserable holding a high-profile position without having to actually put in the work.
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:31 AM
May 3

I might get a little bored playing golf all the time instead, though.

True Dough

(23,163 posts)
12. Not likely
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:38 AM
May 3

IF you were winning at golf all the time! Trump has all those club championships to his name. So good. Some say there's never been a better golfer!

BeerBarrelPolka

(1,767 posts)
15. It's
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:40 AM
May 3

It's not about guilt. It's called narcissistic rage and trump displays that countless times, as do all narcs. It's part and parcel of being a narcissist.

Rebl2

(16,416 posts)
34. I also
Sat May 3, 2025, 11:25 AM
May 3

think he hates the fact that he is getting old and he knows he is overweight and can’t do the things he used to do. He would have been better off, after he lost the election in 2020, to leave the US and live elsewhere.

RandomNumbers

(18,635 posts)
17. And, he probably has a few prescriptions to help
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:57 AM
May 3

if there is ever any danger of an unhappy feeling entering what is left of his psyche.

(note that he probably doesn't have to worry about prescriptions in the same way the rest of us do. in his case, someone is just stocking the supply when needed)

Xavier Breath

(5,657 posts)
11. I would imagine he's only miserable during those brief times when he's not making someone else miserable.
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:37 AM
May 3

Now, when exactly that is...

moondust

(20,881 posts)
14. Only because
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:40 AM
May 3

he wants the whole world on its knees before him but he's only getting his spineless GQP toadies to comply.

Ferrets are Cool

(22,202 posts)
16. Except when he is exacting misery on others.
Sat May 3, 2025, 09:54 AM
May 3

Or making crude offensive jokes about those who are disabled.

Fiendish Thingy

(19,407 posts)
19. He is constantly motivated to fill the empty void where his soul should be
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:13 AM
May 3

So, that’s why he’s up at 2am tweeting insults, because otherwise he would be alone with his nagging awareness of his complete failure as a human.

Constantly Flexing power, seeking wealth and adulation, and making others suffer are the only things that can temporarily quiet the roaring insecurity and emptiness inside of him.

surfered

(7,015 posts)
20. No, he's a narcissistic sociopath. He's loving being the center of attention, the ass kissing, the power
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:14 AM
May 3

He also escaped going to jail and is using his position to make tons of money, his measurement of status.

gab13by13

(28,290 posts)
21. He's probably golfing right now,
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:14 AM
May 3

He has a long weekend. He flew from his speech in Alabama Thursday night right to Mar-el-Loco.

Tommy Carcetti

(43,946 posts)
23. I once saw secret backstage video on YouTube, since taken down...
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:15 AM
May 3

…of Trump at one of his rallies, being told some student journalist wanted to ask him a question. I think it was about the cost of college or something.

When Trump’s handler tells he he has to entertain this kid for a half minute, Trump spews out annoyingly, “What, do I have to do this now? Let’s get this over with.”

Meanwhile I recently watched a story on Bill Clinton, while he was President, and he too got a similar request for an interview from a student journalist. He was more than happy to sit down with the kid and be interviewed for 10 minutes, took pictures, etc.

It made a huge impact on that kid’s life. He ended up starting a successful company, even helped to pay for the college education of the kids of the staffer who helped arrange the interview. He and Clinton even reunited years later.

Some people actually like and care about other people’s lives.

Donald Trump is not one of those people.

Swede

(36,311 posts)
24. He's only happy when he's pulling the wings off flies, or deporting brown people.
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:18 AM
May 3

While golfing, he's too busy attempting to not get caught at cheating to really enjoy it.

In other words he's a dark triad personality.

Hotler

(13,135 posts)
25. Hopefully. He's carrying the weight of his voters hate, cruelty, selfishness, meanness, racism,
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:21 AM
May 3

with every step he takes.

no_hypocrisy

(51,701 posts)
26. He's never been happy.
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:23 AM
May 3

Money. Power. Women. Influence. Control.

As Mary Trump's titular book says, Never Enough.

And Roy Cohn taught him that it's OK to be miserable when you have everything.

Ocelot II

(124,951 posts)
27. No question.
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:24 AM
May 3

Actually, although it's hard for me to wish him well, it would be better for everyone if he wasn't so miserable, because then maybe he wouldn't be such a pernicious asshole. He's clearly miserable all the time or he wouldn't be enraged and lashing out at everybody and everything. Happy, contented people don't devote their lives to the destruction of others.

Luvcatz14

(21 posts)
28. No, he's a narcissist
Sat May 3, 2025, 10:45 AM
May 3

He lives in his happy little bubble where he’s king of the world. We can’t view him through the lens of ourselves and the way we think and feel. He has zero empathy. He’s a monster.

unblock

(55,171 posts)
30. I think of it like an addiction. He's desperately needs ever more praise and validation, and gets *pissed* when anyone
Sat May 3, 2025, 11:16 AM
May 3

doesn't comply.

So he spends much of his time between angry and furious. The only relief he gets is when he's in a safe space like rallies or fox news where they almost always play along.

relief from withdrawal is not happiness, but it's the closest he'll ever get.

PlanetBev

(4,324 posts)
32. He is a bottomless pit of the need for constant attention
Sat May 3, 2025, 11:22 AM
May 3

Unless he’s getting it every minute, he’s in hell.

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