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kpete

(72,687 posts)
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 05:52 PM Monday

"My wife, a Republican, has decided to vote for the Democrats.. She voted for Trump twice."

My wife, a Republican, has decided to vote for the Democrats. TLDR: I put her quote at the bottom of this post.

She has never voted for a Democrat. She voted for Trump twice. She soured on him big time in his first term and was already fed up with him by the 2020 election, but voted for him again because she walked the party line. And then he pulled everything he did after the election and she said she'd never vote for him again. She supported a different candidate in the GOP primary.

We were on a walk tonight and for the first time, she said she was voting for the Democrats. I asked her why and here's what she said:

"He scares me. I think he is fundamentally evil. I hate that he creates chaos and division and divides the country. He breeds hatred. He uses his supporters as guard dogs and gets them all riled up, while they're on a leash and then points and tells them who he wants attacked, and they attack. It's dangerous. He's beyond narcissistic. He's power hungry and will do anything to get power and keep it. The Republicans are scared of him and will do whatever he says. None of them will stand up to him and do what's right. He divides us to gain power. He intentionally puts people in danger because he wants more power. That's pure evil."


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"My wife, a Republican, has decided to vote for the Democrats.. She voted for Trump twice." (Original Post) kpete Monday OP
Pure evil (R) and The Great Deception BoRaGard Monday #1
EVIL is really the most appropriate word for not only Trump but the current Republican Party Wiz Imp Monday #31
Sounds like Mrs. Aristus. Aristus Monday #2
See, miracles do happen! Permanut Monday #17
I am so happy my wife is a Democrat. Intractable Monday #3
Same for my husband Bettie Monday #13
I'm with you guys! slightlv Monday #15
All of my kids are flaming liberals as well Bettie Monday #22
I think repukes were somewhat "normal" back then... ailsagirl Monday #37
Took a while. elleng Monday #4
Some take more time. LiberalFighter Monday #12
Better late than never! nt Wednesdays Monday #38
Wow. sheshe2 Monday #5
Kick TY Cha Monday #6
Congratulation to your wife to becoming aware of what an evil sob he is and how he could destroy our country kimbutgar Monday #7
One man krkaufman Monday #8
Important that she sees what he's done to the Republican Party MadameButterfly Yesterday #44
Glad your wife came to her senses and saw Voldemort for who he is - a dangerous crook. But out of curiosity what was her onetexan Monday #9
He will still get 95% HagathaCrispy Monday #10
I don't understand your post. Are you saying tRump will get 95 % of registered voters? Where are you getting this info. debm55 Monday #16
Nope HagathaCrispy Monday #25
Sorry , I thought you meant the total vote debm55 Monday #34
The key is that 5% MadameButterfly Yesterday #45
better late than never lefthandedskyhook Monday #11
I hold reality tv partially to blame LiberalFighter Monday #14
A friend said his daughter and son-in-law really like tsf from the Apprentice. JoetheShow Monday #20
Maybe you should gift them this book .... eppur_se_muova Monday #24
EVIL Jean Genie Monday #18
The enemy of my enemy... JoetheShow Monday #19
I have always wondered what impact being married Dan Monday #21
The heart will not be told whom it may love. TomSlick Monday #23
Please tell your wife.......THANK YOU! ProudMNDemocrat Monday #26
I don't believe it's kpetes wife leftieNanner Monday #27
trump is made of selfishness and greed and nothing else. mwb970 Monday #28
They're burning thru their goodwill, reputation for that ArkansasDemocrat1 Monday #36
How do people partner up with people of opposite beliefs? Dem4life1234 Monday #29
I don't get it either Skittles Monday #40
She certainly has Trump's number. I hope more Republican voters have his number -- and realize it's NOT #47. Beartracks Monday #30
My meek and mild soft spoken Wife, a Democrat, would kick my ass BOSSHOG Monday #32
congratulations... myohmy2 Monday #33
This message was self-deleted by its author ArkansasDemocrat1 Monday #35
To quote Officer McClain kairos12 Monday #39
If it takes one 4 years to see what Trump is, something's off. jaxexpat Yesterday #41
My wife won't be voting for either Trump or Harris DFW Yesterday #42
I've been saying that since 2016. Takes some people longer to see the light. sinkingfeeling Yesterday #43
He is pure evil Roc2020 Yesterday #46
Well, there have been evil ones before. Susan Calvin Yesterday #47
That's a good start. ECL213 Yesterday #48

BoRaGard

(2,168 posts)
1. Pure evil (R) and The Great Deception
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 05:56 PM
Monday

repent ye wayward repubes. Don't lie again and claim you didn't know.

Wiz Imp

(420 posts)
31. EVIL is really the most appropriate word for not only Trump but the current Republican Party
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:14 PM
Monday

Unfortunately, it is not used nearly as often as it should be. As far as I'm concerned, every single discussion of Trump and/or MAGA Republicans in general should include the phrase "Pure Fucking Evil"

Aristus

(67,613 posts)
2. Sounds like Mrs. Aristus.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 05:59 PM
Monday

The one good thing I can say about Trump is that he turned her from a conservative Christian Republican into a liberal Democratic atheist.

She started voting for the Democratic candidate back in 2008, even though she actually admired John McCain. But she loathed Sarah Palin. She voted to re-elect Barack Obama in 2012, and voting proudly and enthusiastically for Hillary Clinton in 2016. When her church refused to denounce Trump's feculently un-Christian behavior, she was done with Christianity for good.

Intractable

(190 posts)
3. I am so happy my wife is a Democrat.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 05:59 PM
Monday

I don't have to spend my evenings convincing her of the validity of information.

Bettie

(16,750 posts)
13. Same for my husband
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:46 PM
Monday

I can't imagine living with someone and disagreeing about something so fundamental.

But, I guess Republicans used to be normal people....at some point in the past.

Bettie

(16,750 posts)
22. All of my kids are flaming liberals as well
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 07:02 PM
Monday

actually, they think that I am a little on the conservative side for them..

ailsagirl

(23,363 posts)
37. I think repukes were somewhat "normal" back then...
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:54 PM
Monday

It was the advent of Karl Rove that started the downward slide--his "Contract with America" took quite a toll on our country.

kimbutgar

(22,480 posts)
7. Congratulation to your wife to becoming aware of what an evil sob he is and how he could destroy our country
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:16 PM
Monday

If ( god forbid ) he is re elected.

krkaufman

(13,613 posts)
8. One man
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:17 PM
Monday
The Republicans are scared of him and will do whatever he says. None of them will stand up to him and do what's right.


Given she voted for him twice, I won’t hold my breath that she fully grasps what she, herself, is saying and hold all Republican candidates accountable. Trump could have been made a footnote in history years ago had the GOP not put party ahead of country.

MadameButterfly

(1,340 posts)
44. Important that she sees what he's done to the Republican Party
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:33 AM
Yesterday

I can't believe how cogent she is for a former Trump voter. But she is proof that his ever increasing insanity is having an effect on former supporters.

He'll continue to get worse. It will wear some people away. I don't believe everyone has decided and can't switch. We've never seen this level of political malpractice, vengeance, incompetence, and just plain laziness in a presidential nominee before. There has never been a self-proclaimed dictator, and some low-information voters will catch on late.

Kamala and Walz are still pretty new and on fire. We aren't hoping for the 40%, we just need another 5%.

onetexan

(13,579 posts)
9. Glad your wife came to her senses and saw Voldemort for who he is - a dangerous crook. But out of curiosity what was her
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:22 PM
Monday

reasoning for voting for him twice previously? How did she come to the realization she shouldn't vote for him? Was it J6, his displays of lunacy, getting in bed w the nazis or his dangerous rhetoric to incite violence?

debm55

(30,810 posts)
16. I don't understand your post. Are you saying tRump will get 95 % of registered voters? Where are you getting this info.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:50 PM
Monday

MadameButterfly

(1,340 posts)
45. The key is that 5%
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:34 AM
Yesterday

5% in the wing states will give us the election. Might even be a landslide. But I'd prefer 10% to overcome the coup that will follow and for all of our stress levels.

JoetheShow

(56 posts)
20. A friend said his daughter and son-in-law really like tsf from the Apprentice.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:57 PM
Monday

He was so commanding. Such a leader and business man. I couldn't believe people really believed that nonsense. I'm losing a lot of my foolish notions about the sense and judgement of the American people. It is very depressing some times.

Jean Genie

(388 posts)
18. EVIL
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:51 PM
Monday

No doubt about it: he is EVIL! And it's damn scary to be facing evil, and wondering if we'll survive the evil onslaught!

JoetheShow

(56 posts)
19. The enemy of my enemy...
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:52 PM
Monday

I glad she has, for the moment at least, seen the light. It took much too long, but ok... peace. I always thought tsf was a buffoon who was totally unfit to be President but didn't think he was particularly dangerous. When he came down the escalator and started talking about how the migrants were murderers and rapist, I started worrying. I know enough history to know there is always a willing audience for that drek.

Dan

(3,916 posts)
21. I have always wondered what impact being married
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 06:59 PM
Monday

To a person that voted for Trump would be like and how it would impact the marriage.

I can’t imagine having a meaningful conversation when both parties are on such opposite sides of the political spectrum, especially with someone like Trump.

I long for the days of the McCain, Romneys and even Bush(s) because at least there wouldn’t be the cauldron of hate. But Trump, is a marriage license too far.

I would be in the position of questioning everything that I knew about my spouse and maybe, even myself.

Glad I am not in that situation….although, I guess, Love conquers all.

TomSlick

(11,588 posts)
23. The heart will not be told whom it may love.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 07:10 PM
Monday

Still and all, I am fortunate that Herself is, if anything, more liberal than I. I couldn't stand the drama.

ProudMNDemocrat

(18,431 posts)
26. Please tell your wife.......THANK YOU!
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 07:39 PM
Monday

Let her also know my 3 Granddaughters will thank her. I applaud her come around to reality.

All of America's daughters and Granddaughters will thank us for voting for the Harris/Walz ticket. America's Seniors too.

mwb970

(11,573 posts)
28. trump is made of selfishness and greed and nothing else.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 07:54 PM
Monday

The very two qualities that are associated with evil in Christian theology and scripture. So of course all the MAGA-addled "Christians" worship him like a god. What dumb people!

Dem4life1234

(413 posts)
29. How do people partner up with people of opposite beliefs?
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 07:59 PM
Monday

Seems draining

She seems to only care when it affects her.

Skittles

(157,002 posts)
40. I don't get it either
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 10:31 PM
Monday

and as far as her waking up - what the FUCK took her so long? I find it VERY hard to forgive these assholes who helped to inflict that vile POS on America

Beartracks

(13,208 posts)
30. She certainly has Trump's number. I hope more Republican voters have his number -- and realize it's NOT #47.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:10 PM
Monday

BOSSHOG

(38,899 posts)
32. My meek and mild soft spoken Wife, a Democrat, would kick my ass
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:23 PM
Monday

Even If I mentioned I was undecided. Which I’m incredibly decided when it comes to Presidential elections. Have been for more then 50 years.

myohmy2

(3,539 posts)
33. congratulations...
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:33 PM
Monday

...jump in, the Democratic water's fine...

...we welcome good decent people...

...

Response to kpete (Original post)

DFW

(55,934 posts)
42. My wife won't be voting for either Trump or Harris
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:26 AM
Yesterday

But both our daughters will be voting for Harris/Walz, as will I. That‘s two in Texas and one in New York, plus the husband of my New York-based daughter. The husband of my Germany-based daughter is, like my wife, ineligible to vote in this election.

Roc2020

(1,666 posts)
46. He is pure evil
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:15 AM
Yesterday

to the point where the owner of his soul wants it...almost begging for it, tried twice to get it, and for some unknown reason God is saying no.

Susan Calvin

(1,944 posts)
47. Well, there have been evil ones before.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 12:43 PM
Yesterday

Just not quite so blatant, or else they let their subordinates do the dirty work. But I'm always glad when somebody sees the light.

ECL213

(282 posts)
48. That's a good start.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 01:00 PM
Yesterday

The real question will be whether she votes for some other worthless asshole in 2028. One who doesn't scream the quiet part out loud.

What am I saying? Of course she will. Because none of them will have really learned a goddam thing.

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